hi everyone......i need some help!
which sex toy is the best? im new to all this,im 31 and ive never had a sex toy(i know im pretty sad! lol) just need a few pointers in the rite direction excuse the pun lol.......so any help would be great,thanks
Oh god... how long is a piece of string, seza! The best toy depends entirely on what your own tastes are and how you like to be stimulated. I guess the best way to start is to think about how you orgasm - clitorally or g-spot or both! - and work from there.
As a general guide, bullet or ladyfinger vibes are a great place to start, maybe moving onto a rabbit once you find out what size is ok for you and intensity of vibrations. Personally, I'd recommend...
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14964 - as a clitoral stimulator only
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15342 - I have this and I love it, so versatile! Can be used penetratively, though it's not big, and on the clit as well.
Then maybe moving onto something like the lovely Jessica... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15335
Hope that helps! :)
Oh so much choice! Ok, so what KIND of thing do you usually like? Penetration/insertion, clit stimulation, both? Are you put off by bigger toys, do you need something quiet etc? Those are a few things to think about - there are loads of great toys on here for beginners, but as not everyone likes the same thing it is hard to say. I mean you must have heard the fuss about rabbits, but I know a few people here don;t like them at ball, if you see what I mean x
not sad at all.... i would recommend the durex wand ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4093 ) as a good one to try first - rechargeable and only 8.49, its quite sturdy and has some great vibes :)
shellyboo wrote:
Oh god... how long is a piece of string, seza! The best toy depends entirely on what your own tastes are and how you like to be stimulated. I guess the best way to start is to think about how you orgasm - clitorally or g-spot or both! - and work from there.
As a general guide, bullet or ladyfinger vibes are a great place to start, maybe moving onto a rabbit once you find out what size is ok for you and intensity of vibrations. Personally, I'd recommend...
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14964 - as a clitoral stimulator only
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15342 - I have this and I love it, so versatile! Can be used penetratively, though it's not big, and on the clit as well.
Then maybe moving onto something like the lovely Jessica... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15335
Hope that helps! :)
thanks shelly i will have a look x
bigbrownblowjobeyes wrote:
Oh so much choice! Ok, so what KIND of thing do you usually like? Penetration/insertion, clit stimulation, both? Are you put off by bigger toys, do you need something quiet etc? Those are a few things to think about - there are loads of great toys on here for beginners, but as not everyone likes the same thing it is hard to say. I mean you must have heard the fuss about rabbits, but I know a few people here don;t like them at ball, if you see what I mean x
i like both penertration and clit stimulation,i dont need to be too quiet which is a plus lol......i know i have lots to choose from on here so its all good.......thanks hun x
LadiesMan wrote:
not sad at all.... i would recommend the durex wand ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4093 ) as a good one to try first - rechargeable and only 8.49, its quite sturdy and has some great vibes :)
thanks LM........great help,looks like im in for some fun! cant belive ive waited this long to get into it! x
LadiesMan wrote:
not sad at all.... i would recommend the durex wand ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4093 ) as a good one to try first - rechargeable and only 8.49, its quite sturdy and has some great vibes :)
I have to say the wand did very little for me - all noise and no power in my opinion (should write up the review this afternoon - thanks for the reminder LadiesMan!). I suppose it's just another case of what works for someone doesn't do a thing for someone else. So if this first toy you do purchase doesn't quite push your buttons, don't despair, try something else instead :) My first vibrator was terribly disappointing, I'm just so glad that I didn't stop there!
Perhaps check out this thread: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/vibrators/75222-which-to-buy/ (same topic but rather more established)
seza100 wrote:
hi everyone......i need some help!
which sex toy is the best? im new to all this,im 31 and ive never had a sex toy(i know im pretty sad! lol) just need a few pointers in the rite direction excuse the pun lol.......so any help would be great,thanks
It's not sad at all Seza. Some people experience things before others, so what? Just think you've still got all this "new" stuff to look forwards to, cool!
Tracey cox bullet.
Happy shopping girl!
SG69 x
My personal favourites from my toy box are
The Ultra 7: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6635
Bang Bang Bunny: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13177
Between them, they are honestly the best £30 or however much it was I ever spent. The Ultra 7 is a nice penetrative vibe. The girth is perfect - big enough to get that wonderful full feeling without it being uncomfortable, and it stays put like a dream. Pulse settings on it are great too. You can read my essay of a review on that page lol. The Bang Bang Bunny is fantastic, the moving ears mean that it's more than just a vibrator, and you get all the joys of a rabbit without actually having to be penetrated. When I use the rabbit with the Ultra 7 inside me, it's rare that I dont orgasm. I was quite new to vibes when I got these two, and despite buying more since then, these two remain my firm favourites. Would definitely recommend these two to someone new to sex toys.
mimiaow wrote:
LadiesMan wrote:
not sad at all.... i would recommend the durex wand ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4093 ) as a good one to try first - rechargeable and only 8.49, its quite sturdy and has some great vibes :)
I have to say the wand did very little for me - all noise and no power in my opinion (should write up the review this afternoon - thanks for the reminder LadiesMan!). I suppose it's just another case of what works for someone doesn't do a thing for someone else. So if this first toy you do purchase doesn't quite push your buttons, don't despair, try something else instead :) My first vibrator was terribly disappointing, I'm just so glad that I didn't stop there!
Perhaps check out this thread: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/vibrators/75222-which-to-buy/ (same topic but rather more established)
thanks mimiaow i will check these out x
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
seza100 wrote:
hi everyone......i need some help!
which sex toy is the best? im new to all this,im 31 and ive never had a sex toy(i know im pretty sad! lol) just need a few pointers in the rite direction excuse the pun lol.......so any help would be great,thanks
It's not sad at all Seza. Some people experience things before others, so what? Just think you've still got all this "new" stuff to look forwards to, cool!
Tracey cox bullet.
Happy shopping girl!
SG69 x
thanks SG...i cant wait to start shopping,but sadly just now my cash flow says NO! as soon as i do though i will let you know the outcome x
Ecksvie wrote:
My personal favourites from my toy box are
The Ultra 7: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6635
Bang Bang Bunny: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13177
Between them, they are honestly the best £30 or however much it was I ever spent. The Ultra 7 is a nice penetrative vibe. The girth is perfect - big enough to get that wonderful full feeling without it being uncomfortable, and it stays put like a dream. Pulse settings on it are great too. You can read my essay of a review on that page lol. The Bang Bang Bunny is fantastic, the moving ears mean that it's more than just a vibrator, and you get all the joys of a rabbit without actually having to be penetrated. When I use the rabbit with the Ultra 7 inside me, it's rare that I dont orgasm. I was quite new to vibes when I got these two, and despite buying more since then, these two remain my firm favourites. Would definitely recommend these two to someone new to sex toys.
thanks Ecksvie.....everyone on here is a great help x
Wellllll my first sex toy was the Ammunition RO-80mm Bullet Vibrator. Great for clitoral stimulation, but obviously not as great for penetration. Great started sex toy. ;)
Then my second was the Ultra 7 Waterproof Hummer Rabbit Vibrator which I LOVE and glad I bought before it got discontinued. This is great for both clitoral stimulation and g spot penetration because the head of it is curved. There's another vibrator like this one called LoveHoney Jessica Rabbit 2.0 G-Spot Vibrator.
thanks LL.....i`ll have a look x
Wicked! ;)