Hi, I have this problem where our sex life has decrease to almost nothing now with having 2 kids. I've been trying to get my wife to want and enjoy having sex and nothing seems to work. I've offered her to buy sex toys and her response is "we don't have money to waist on sex toys, we have more important things to focus on".
I think sex toys could actually spice things up a bit, it has in the past. anyone have any suggestions, comments or life experience to share on this subject?
The problem is that if I try too much, she shuts down completly, if I try to surprise her with gifts she complains about money. I've been trying to please myself with masturbation but its getting really old and it just dosen't work anymore.