We all have our problems in life but I'm having some troubles with my partner currently. I love her to bits and I know she loves me but we're having a lot of problems in finding time to be intimate.
We had a daughter just less than two years ago and she's proven to be difficult as most kids are. Still to the point where she's getting up a couple of times a night at least. We've also had a very difficult year in that we've had a major loss in my own family and also my partners mum has had a serious stroke.
It's all boiled down to us finding ourselves being intimate only once a month or something now, which isn't usual for a couple 30 years of age.
I've got quite a high sex drive and was getting to the point where I was wanting to experiment more in the bedroom but at the moment I'm taking anything I can get. I've often resorted to porn and masterbaiting also which isn't helping the situation. When we do find time I try my hardest to pleasure her properly before I think about myself but I often then only last minutes as I'm like a dog on heat.
It sounds selfish of me I know and I need to be patient before things get back to any sort of normality but I need help and advice on things I can do to help her get herself back into a being a happy and contented person and then I believe the more intimate side of things will progress from there onwards.
Anyone any advice?