Sex with pornography

As a couple we have an exciting sex life. We love sex in unusual places and have tried quite a few things discussed in the forums. We use pornography occasionally to try things that they act out. What normally happens is we randomly select a video and after or during watching we will try out what we see. This has offered an exciting dimension to our relationship.

Anybody else do this?
Any tips to further our enjoyment?

I will certainly be following this thread. This is something we have only recently tried, adding porn into the background. Trouble is that we haven't really found the right porn. We want something with a bit of a storyline, a bit romantic. After trying a couple of times i said it wasn't working. The female always seems to end up screaming and talking to much. I get it the want to perform but soft moans and realistic scripting would be 1000 times better than constant screaming.

I agree with you that the ‘acting’ isn’t up to much in must porn but we take it as we find it. If there is a facial, I get one off my husband. If it’s a hand job that’s what I give him and do on getting into some pretty kinky stuff sometimes.

It’s completely random and that’s what makes it exciting! We look past the poor quality and concentrate on what we will copy. I have to admit that sometimes it has made me a bit of a slut in the bedroom but we both love these occasional viewings. 😃

I asked my partner after she found me masturbating to porn. But she does not like it and is happy that I enjoy on my own which is a big shame as I would love to share the experience

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I will certainly be following this thread. This is something we have only recently tried, adding porn into the background. Trouble is that we haven't really found the right porn. We want something with a bit of a storyline, a bit romantic. After trying a couple of times i said it wasn't working. The female always seems to end up screaming and talking to much. I get it the want to perform but soft moans and realistic scripting would be 1000 times better than constant screaming.

I'm with you on this thread but I think you may like Vivian Thomas movies as there is more story to them We also both love Monica Sweet and Eva Strauss as porn actresses, my wife really likes Mick Blue in films and she had never considered Reverse Cowgirl 🤠 till she saw it in a porn movie.

My gf loves to watch porn while we get it on, in particular anything with Elle Alexandra in - she has a girl crush on her. Turns me right on that does :)

This is something I've been meaning to speak to my husband with. I think porn is a great way to inspire you to try new things and encourage a sex life.

Porn can be fun in the background or a distraction depending on what is showing. We tend to put erotic type porn on rather than gonzo as it’s less about the screaming a money shots. I do think it’s great to see new positions but you need to remember they are acting and all the positioning, screaming and bodies including penis size and designer vaginas are not something you need to pay attention too. they are paid to do it all, emotions are almost non existent and the stars are chosen for their bodies or had more than enough surgery to look the way they do.

We’ve found 90% of the positions used in porn make great positions for home made sex tapes but for actually reaching orgasm it seems far more visual than pleasurable.

Any good recommendations that you particularly enjoyed?

Use to watch quite a lot with my oh while playing with each over it would get to the point where my oh would pushed my hand away then devour my cock it was like a switch had flipped