Sexuality Identification

I have been married to my wife for 10 years and been with her for 17. When I met her she was a virgin. We have learnt a lot together over the years about each others needs and wants. We moved years and years ago to use Porn movies on occasion. This then lead to realising, despite her shame over it, that we both loved Lesbian porn the most. She especially like tribbing. We also used me making up stories for her whilst she masturbated or I pleasured her. She always came hard but then felt shame.

Fast foreward and she has finally realised and prepared to be honest and accept that she is bi-sexual not in practise but certainly in mind. This has allowed me to finally admit to myself and her that I am polysexual. I have always found penises as well as vaginas sexual attractive but do not find men appealing.

Yet she-males, transgenders and anything femine sexually excite me and always have. It became obvious to me when my wife pleasured me with her hand whilst my penis was between her legs so I could cum on her stomach. The idea that my wife had a penis blew my mind. Now neither of us will ever fufill these feelings as we are totally faithful but feel relieved to have finally accepted our identities and allow each other to enjoy it during our together time.

Question has any other couples gone on such a journey over so many years and accepted and explore those feelings?

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