Hello, Im after some tips please .. .. I bought the slimline g spot vibe hoping to find my Gspot maybe even squirt, I was so confident I would after all the amazing reviews... but Im having no luck. 
. I dont think hubby enjoys using toys, I did get him to use it on me, but I can tell he feels uncomfortable using toys, so no luck with him either... Which is a shame , I bought a handful of toys to spice things up in the bedroom.. He works away alot so I get to use them then, and I love them!..So could anyone tell me what Im doing wrong?
alot of women find it hard to find the g-spot at first and even with toys find it hard to reach climax nevermind squirt with them, but after a while it does get more sensitive and orgasming from stimulating it becomes easier.
It is just a question of patience and practice and relaxing, its a shame about your Oh but I am sure that you will be able to do it with enough time.
I think you need to be patient and relax more. The OH finds she can get off using toys when she's alone when watching the tele or listening to music or even reading a book at the same time, just relax, don't think to hard about it and stop hoping for it to be instantaneous :)
I've been on a quest to find the wife's G spot too and we've been together for 40 years this year!
Have you ever seen nina Harley's Guide To G Spot Sex? I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post a link to a porn site where I found this video (over 40 minutes long). Just do a video search on the web and I'm sure you will find it. It'sgot to be worth a try eh?
After watching the video I managed to find her G spot. She'd been trying for a while too! I think that maybe the more it gets stimulated, the more responsive it may become. So we are going to have lots of fun finding out.
Hope you get the pleasure you are after. Good luck.
Thank you all.. No I havent heard of Nina Harleys guide.. I shall do a search later (and leave the window open for husband 
) ... cheers
not all women can squirt, so don't be worried if you can't.
I fully recommend using this Gspot gel, I found that it expanded the gpsot to a size that even I could feel it;
Blueeyes82 wrote:
not all women can squirt, so don't be worried if you can't.
I fully recommend using this Gspot gel, I found that it expanded the gpsot to a size that even I could feel it;
Hmmm... I like the idea, but I am sensitive to glycerin and parabens and it has both. pity 
Otherwise, it took me a while too, to get find my G spot. It was at the beginning basically a chance of feeling something more enjoyable in one spot. And then stimulating the spot. You have to find out what works for you. For me I need hard vibrators I can rub on my G spot to get most of it. Or hard dildos, such as glass.
Having said that, I did not orgams through G spot stimulation alone, yet, but I did get close few times, so I am hopeful. And this is about a year after finding it. So while some women can find it immediately, it may take some time. Just enjoy and let it come, when it will. And maybe bit experiment.
On the other hand others may prefer something different.
And finally one toy does not crack it for all. A toy can have hundreds of good reviews, but you may just be the one of few for whom it will just not do it. Happens, as we are all different. With LH return policy... You cannot get much wrong.
Maybe use a glass toy, something that you can heat or cool down, see if that has an effect?
cold glass dildo gives me more stimulation than normal dildo, thats true. It can have that effect. But while I love them, the vibrator still works bit better. But worth the try for sure.
My new glass dildo will be here soon, cannot wait