I'm very naive when it comes to toys. Other than a bullet never used one. How do the ears work. Which was does it ,go in' I need penetration as well as stimulation. I went for the mr big , should I have tried something else. Reccomendations and help appreciated
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The longest part of the rabbit is what goes in and insert it so that (if it is curved) it curves up the way and the ears stay outside your body and sit against the clit.
I personally only use silicone rabbits as they're completely body safe. I'd recommend the tracey cox rabbit (which I have and love): http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574
I have the non-rabbit version of this toy and love it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35547
And while I haven't tried it, this one is on my wishlist: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33302
This book may also be very helpful to you: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34290
And I'd recommend getting yourself some good lube (I recommend any of the Sassy ones) and some toy cleaner. Good luck!
Thanks Ruby. I was just wondering about the ears as they don't seem to sit right. If that makes sense
It does make sense - one of the commonest 'problems' with a rabbit vibrator is finding one to suit your anatomy - if the ears are in teh wrong place on Mr Big, it might be worth trying one with shorter/longer ears.
Like Sub said, it's common for rabbits to not fit a persons anatomy. You may want to return it and try something else :)
If rabbits don't work for you, I'd recommend getting a separate gspot and clit vibe and using them at the same time. I'd recommend the l'amourose rosa, lovehoney glass gspot toy or the oh mi bod cuddle for gspot and the je joue mimi, erotic rocket or humdinger for clit stimulation. Click on my name if you want to see any of my reviews on those.
With the rabbit I use to have (ages ago) I used the ears without inserting or used the shaft without using the ears as they vibrated independently. I don't know if all rabbits do this though.
My first sex toy was a rabbit from ye olde high street store that shall remain unnamed. They were all the rage as after Sex and the City highlighted them. I went for the least realistic of them but I discovered it had like a creepy caterpillar face *shudder * on it when I took it out of the box. Anyway enough about the weirdness of it.
I found the ears just didn't sit right at all if I wanted to use the shaft internally, I had to angle them but one move could shift them leading to next to no sensation. So I would use them separately which defeated the purpose really.
Its only been 5 months since I placed my first order here and discovered what I really like. Although I still do fancy trying a rabbit again one day! If after a while you still don't get on with it remember LoveHoney has an amazing guarantee! We all start somewhere my lovely, we have all had the naïve stage but it goes quite quickly!
Pop by ask as many questions as you need, this community it a blessing! Its fun and safe!
There are different rabbits for different bodies and if none are suitable return free and choose a different kind of vibe (or two, one for insertion and one for cliteral stimulation).
I am not sure which one you got, but I have several rabbits and I personally go back time and TIME again to the Tracey Cox SuperSex Rechargable Silicone rabbitt.
All around the one I recommend the most to other people, especially someone who is just starting out with a rabbit.
I also love the 50 shades of Grey greedy girl gspot and my happy rabbitt II from Lovehoney but both are larger and less flexiable and the ears are less pliable to really work with your body.
I own some others I enjoy to use as well but those are my top three.
Hi, make sure you use lube, it will heighten the sensation and make insertion much easier.
I have this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35547 it's not cheep but it's rechargable so no need to buy batteries. Rechargable rabbits are often much quieter than battery ones too.
This one has a wide bulbouse section that sits against your clit, so a large are is stimulated, rather than a small area with ears. Worth considering if you have the cash.
I still haven't found a rabbit that's right for me, so I tend to go for the DIY rabbit technique of using two toys at once. You might find this brings you more joy than struggling with a rabbit. I do hope to find a rabbit that works for me one day though. I agree with other people; if its not working for you send it back and exchange it for something new to try. I think I remember you saying in a different post you already had a bullet, so you might like to try a G-spot vibe and try using it at the same time as your bullet, or you could go for a differnt rabbit recommended by some other members. Good luck and I hope you find the perfect toy :) xx