Sorry :(

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Hey there everyone...

We are so sorry we haven't been about for a while!

We really miss contributing and miss our friends on here.

Unfortunately Lady-J's health hasn't been great, And thanks to the hospital making two blinding mistakes, Her health problems have been added to and prolonged. Before you all start worrying, She will be ok! She just needs lots of rest and tlc. She hasnt been on here or fb ( either account ) as she's gone into her shell a bit, So shes not ignoring any of you, Shes just having a tough old time of it!

Add to that our sons behavoural problems becoming so out of control, That we get a call from his school almost every day now for the last few months. Hes been excluded from his class and school trips because they cant handle him. Then we get called in as in the playground he's made 'sexual' gestures three times, they thought he was being sexualized at home!!! :O

That has settled thank the gods but his behavour is just off the scale!!!

As for me?, - Ive been looking after them both pretty much 24/7 & when i havent, ive been working all the hours god gives at the shop or on my car.

So things have been rather mental to say the least and weve been through hell to be honest, Still no luck on the housing so still at my parents ( 3 years now! ) & sex has been the last thing on our minds ( well J's ) for the last 4 months or so.

Side note, - Alice, Sorry we havent done J's well overdue review yet, A s you can imagine shes not really been in the mindframe to try lingerie on :(

But we WILL sort one out as soon as we can!

Anyway, We miss you all & hope to get back on track when life decides to give us a break!

All our Love, Sed & LJ xxxxxx

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Sed

hugs to both of you sounds like life is tough at the moment

Hope J starts to feel better soon

Dont know how old your son is or what his difficulties are but have you got a CAF in place? If his needs mean that more than one professional agency are involved he should have one.

http://www.cwdcouncil.org.uk/caf have a read, it might make it easier for you all to get the support you need without too much 'banging head on brick wall' I did some training on writing them and they are not as scarey as they sound.

xGGx

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Yeh we have a CAF in place aswell as a statement.

And thankyou ;) xx

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Hello Sed, I hope things get better for both of you. When Lady J is feeling better it'll be great to see her back on the forum xx

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Hey sweetie,

I really hope J is her lovely bubbly self soon and your son settles down. It may be because of everything with J, just a suggestion.

Miss you both lots.

Give J bug hugs from me.

MM xx

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Scarlot wrote:

i miss you both loads!

really sorry things are so shit atm for you all and i hope everythng looks up, wish i could give you all some big well deserved cuddles! keep us all posted as we miss you and care about you loads!!

xxx

For a moment I was wondering who Scarlet was then lol!

Thankyou sweetie!!! Will keep an eye open on fb and here for a catch up ;)

Like the name change! xxx

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Nymph & MM, Thankyou you two! will pass this on to J xxx

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Please don't feel bad on the reviews front - feeling better is so much more important! I hope neither of you have been worrying about it.

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Thanyou Avrielle!

It's more to do with him not being able to control or process his emotions, We're seeing a specialist clinic later this month so will hopefully start to get answers soon.

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Lovehoney - Alice wrote:

Please don't feel bad on the reviews front - feeling better is so much more important! I hope neither of you have been worrying about it.

We were Alice but thankyou so much for being understanding about it! ;) xx

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Sorry to hear things have been so tough for you all .

Hope things improve soon .

xL-Yx

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Hi Sed, Hope things start to improve for you and your family soon.

*hugs* for both of you.

Hope to see you both back on the forums when you are both ready. xx

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Hello,

I am sorry to hear about your problems. I hope you will both do much better now! Best of luck

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Hi sed,

Sorry to hear about your problems mate keep your chin up,I hope Lady-J gets better soon give her are love see you soon

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Hi Sed,

Give my love to Lady J.

Let me know if you ever need to talk. I work with kids like your son and some with more profound issues (I have got scars to prove it). It is really tough but I know it has nothing to do with your parenting of little man. Also remember at school theye will not be following all the timetable routines as strictly at this time of year and that will make it soooo much harder for him to cope.

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hope evreything sorts its self out mate big hug to lady j.sounds like your doing a grand job son so keep ur chin up

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Yay!! Glad to see you back!!

Sed you've both got my number so if either of you ever need a chat you know you can ring me any time xx

Give J lots of hugs from me & I hope she gets better soon xx

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Aww, Thanks sweetie ( GG ) xxx Will do ;)

Lookin - Yummy wrote:

Sorry to hear things have been so tough for you all .

Hope things improve soon .

xL-Yx

sexy little minx wrote:

Hi Sed, Hope things start to improve for you and your family soon.

*hugs* for both of you.

Hope to see you both back on the forums when you are both ready. xx

js wrote:

hope evreything sorts its self out mate big hug to lady j.sounds like your doing a grand job son so keep ur chin up

Honeytongue wrote:

Hi Sed,

Give my love to Lady J.

Let me know if you ever need to talk. I work with kids like your son and some with more profound issues (I have got scars to prove it). It is really tough but I know it has nothing to do with your parenting of little man. Also remember at school theye will not be following all the timetable routines as strictly at this time of year and that will make it soooo much harder for him to cope.

easy_tiger wrote:

Hi sed,

Sorry to hear about your problems mate keep your chin up,I hope Lady-J gets better soon give her are love see you soon

Laveila wrote:

Hello,

I am sorry to hear about your problems. I hope you will both do much better now! Best of luck

Thankyou so much all of you ;) Means a lot to us both xxxxxx

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sending you both warm wishes, sounds like things have been really tough.

x

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Thankyou Ju ;) x