Hi everyone,
So, I've purchased the Basic's Beginner Rabbit vibrator. I was so excited to use it yesterday afternoon; I'd gotten rid of the other half, and lubed up, however as I went to start the bloody toy wouldn't 'go in'! We haven't had sex for a while (long story) so I'm wondering if I'm too tight and the toy is a bit too wide?
Any tips would be helpful as I was so looking forward to a bit of 'me' time
TIA x
Hiya Licious,
It's possible that it you havent had anything penetrating you for a some time then it will feel a little strange...this in turn can make you tense up and things will feel even more tight.
Did you try getting warmed up a bit first with your fingers ? Maybe start off with a smaller easier to insert toy first to get your body used to it again.
I find if I don't use any of my larger toys for a while, when I do come to use them I can meet with some resistance too! It's usually just a matter of loads ( and I mean loads!) of lube and a gradual build up
Good luck x
This one?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35205
That one is quite girthy for a begginer's rabbit (5.25" circumference). Mrs Chimp needs a bit of a warm up for anything over 5 inches. You could try using the ear or shaft vibrations just on your clitoris to start with to get you more relaxed. And having an orgasm before trying to insert it could help too. 👍
But if it turns out it's not the toy for you don't forget about the Happiness Promise. 🙂👍
I had this exact issue with one of the mantric toys as it’s rather bulbous on the end and was hard to get in even with lube. I found starting with another toy like a less girthy dildo or a glass dildo first to make myself really wet and relaxed helps some. If not, I found using the 3 to 4 finger method works as it helps to stretch you a little.