Okay for some reason, I can't reply to the original thread I started as a message comes up saying "enter a title for the new thread" when I clicked on "reply". . .
Avrielle_Aniko: here is the link for the clit clamp
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17266
Spirals: Thanks for the advice, I'll give it another go tonight