"Shybrunette" it as put him off ...no sex since Friday, I know he was disapointed and frustrated as was I, and it hurt but he ignored the discomfort because he wanted to try..back a few steps I think, at least we know what does and does'nt work...for now. Don't really fancy rear end fellatio not keen on him doing it to me (which he does often) but must admit it does turn me on slightly ...still a bit prudish even now when it come's to anal......