i would love my wife to use a strap on with me but how do i approach the subject??
How far have you got with her round there? Fingering, rimming etc...?
I think as a xmas present would be a good surprise, but does depends on her character.
introduce anal play and suggest 'shopping' on LH together. And when you pass a strap on, wait for her comment toward it....go from there!
Firstly, talk openly about anal in general is a good start. Have a relaxed chat and see where it takes you. She may offer up the option without you prompting but if not bring it up within the conversation about how you're interested in anal yourself - see how she reacts. Having a chat about toys in general and having a look on the lovehoney site which someone above mentioned is also a really good idea. Always communicate - it's scary but it doesn't necessarily mean a bad ending.
agree with all the above, one other thing you can try is tell her you had a dream about her pegging you and see how she reacts to that, i would consider not lying about the way you feel about it though even if she reacts badly, tell her the dream actually turned you on and you quite like the idea of being dominated by a women. (that may also get her interested as in another way as she may get off on the idea of feeling powerful lol).
this is actually how i found out i had a love of crossdressing, i didnt make it up however i actually had a dream about waering lingrie and told my wife, she pulled a raunchy face at me so i started wearing bits in bed (we were already active peggers btw) when we had sex, from then i found i love to feel femme and getting all dressed up.
im sorry but the story of how we got into pegging isn't so exciting, we are very open people and my wife played around my anus with her fingers quite a lot and one day she said we should get a strapon, and i said yeah sure why not. anyway i hope this helps. good luck.x
Yes, I agree you need to be totally open and straightforward about what you want. I would go easy on the sub/Dom aspects unless this is part of what you are looking for. Most pegging porn has it as a BDSM thing but many - possibly the majority of those into pegging don't go with the power/gender exchange thing at all.
These days most people must by now know that pegging is a way of experiencing mind-blowing orgasms. What more excuse do you need for wanting to try it?