@Ian_Chimp Everyone is different, but if you wish me to be word perfect then ( So it “may possibly” be a longer task) I have been circumcised for 56 years, and it has (from age 18 of course) taken me a long time. Maybe because I tend to bottom with guys, so not done that much with penetrating, as not had much experience with women.
As for the loose skin, I can only comment on my own experiences, on myself and other guys I have been with. But the skin of the penis is mobile over the erectile tissue, so if the erection does not stretch the skin to its full length there is spare skin, as with me. Great for those for whom it does stretch tight, I suppose, but I wouldn’t know. Just trying to be helpful, from my own perspective.
@Cassii
Another HJ one; with two hands, palms together, and sort of roll him between your hands, go up and down with it too. Some guys like to be in the middle of a hand clap too, that ones good for warm up, if he likes the sensation.
I will give you some ~BJ techniques that I know of, maybe they will be something you haven’t tried, so can be of use. Some of it maybe obvious though, but I will still put it in.
Eye contact, ( sexy eyes ) as already mentioned, but noisy enthusiastic sounds work well too; like you are eating something totally yummy. Nothing like someone looking and sounding like they are really enjoying what they are doing.
Some guys like teeth dragged over the coronal ridge, or their shaft, some hate it. Have you tried rolling your lips back in, over your teeth, for those who don’t like teeth used.
There are lots of positions from which you can give a BJ, which for me give a some what different sensation; I think it’s down to where the tongue touches. Underneath, on top, from the side etc.
The frenulum, and coronal ridge ( from my experiences) are the most sensitive, but also the most likely to get sore.
They call it BJ but sucking seems more effective than blowing, though blowing until your lips vibrate, like like blowing a raspberry, gives an interesting sensation, may be worth trying, if just for fun. Sucking from the side, ( any side, top bottom ) using one hand to hold the shaft to your lips, while you move up and down. Take it right up to include the glans.
Just licking, is good as a warm up, either flat tongue, or with slightly pursed lips and tongue tip ( if you move your tongue in random directions ( keep your tongue loose in your mouth, to let it move freely ) your tongue doesn’t get as tired ( well mine doesn’t) as licking in one direction ( as in cat lapping) You can focus in on the sensitive parts with a tongue tip, including the urethral opening. Use the flat of your hand in opposition to your tongue, to steady his shaft, it gives you more access than gripping it.
Make sure you keep contact, if you pause to swallow your own saliva it tends to slow things down ( in my experience) Ask him if he is OK if you drool a bit while you give a BJ, so you don’t have to break off to swallow; assuming it doesn’t bother you to do that.
You can save your neck a bit ( head bobbing kills my neck) ask him to do some of the thrusting when you tell him to; you just grip part of his shaft to stop him choking you. This is easier to do if he’s standing or you are both laying on your sides.
He may like a constant speed and depth of each stroke of your mouth, or you can try varying, how deep, and how fast. Vary the strength of sucking too, even throw in a random lip vibrating blow from time to time.
Above all enjoy, and have fun finding out what works, laughing together some times during sex is great; I hate those who take it too seriously.