Suggestions: circumcised hand jobs and blow jobs

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Hi all,

I’m seeing a circumcised guy, and this is my first time with someone circumcised and I would love some suggestions and any advice.

I’m finding a lot of my handjob and blowjob repertoire for shaft and head is not possible (no foreskin) or doesn’t hit the spot the same way (different sensitivity).

So I’m looking for any suggestions for things to try for the shaft and head that is particularly great for circumcised guys. I’m confident with the rest of his body :wink:

I’ve had a read of the forum and it seems using lube for hand jobs is wise and focusing attention just below the head is good, but I’d love to hear any more suggestions or things to try.

I’m looking forward to exploring with him and figuring out together what he likes, but I’d like to be able bring new things to the table too rather than it all having to come from him!

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To be honest, I think the lube is the main thing. If you slap a bit of that on and just explore like normal then you can judge his reactions as you go. :slightly_smiling_face:

You can use soft material too as a ‘fake foreskin’, something like a silky scarf type thing. The main thing is to watch out for chafing.

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Thanks @Ian_Chimp, I was wondering about trying some silk or something like that

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I tend to wank myself off using my boxers (having removed them first :slightly_smiling_face:) if I can’t be bothered to get all lubey-handed, so cotton can work too. Mrs Chimp doesn’t do that though, so I don’t know if there’s a special technique for it that only I can do. :slightly_smiling_face:

She’s used a silky robe before, and that felt very nice. More like sensory-play than my rough and ready boxers trick. :slightly_smiling_face:

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A lot of the online pornography is made in the US where circumcision is common. They seem to use a lot of lubricant, generally baby oil or similar. I’m not circumcised but for masturbation I prefer oil to water based lubricant. Water based stuff dries out too quickly when used externally.

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This is my all time favourite masturbation lube:

Lovehoney Release Masturbation Lubricant 100ml
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Normal water-based is fine though. The flavoured ones are good if you want to mix in a bit of oral. They can dry out, but you can refresh them with a sprinkling of water (or saliva).

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Hubbys circumcised and I use lube on him when I wank him or give him a blowjob and he finds it more comfortable using lube, and no chance of chafing either. And slides a lot easier either in my hand or mouth, it drives him crazy when I use my tongue bar around the bottom part of the coronal ridge, he likes hard and rough, and definitely teasing the head of his cock

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THIS. ALL THE WAY. :+1:
Absolutely lovely stuff. Doesn’t dry out like water-based lube and doesn’t deaden sensitivity like some silicone lubes do, and a small amount goes a long way. I don’t know why the picture’s turned out so huge!

As for techniques, you’d think that after nearly 40 years of being circumcised, I’d be full of advice. The trouble is that it’s been such a long time now, I can’t remember to tell how my masturbation “style” has changed (if at all). :rofl:

Also, what works for one guy may not for another. No two clits are the same: neither are any two penises! Have you considered asking him how he likes being handled, or would that feel too analytical and unspontaneous at what I’m guessing is an early stage in the relationship?

Also, a question: how long ago was he circumcised?

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Quoting photos can send them a bit squiff. :slightly_smiling_face: But if you add the dimensions back in manually that sorts them out. :+1:

![Lovehoney Release Masturbation Lubricant 100ml|150x200](upload://nYktjaos0SmJuxQ3tFV1LBDT26b)

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Thanks, Ian - useful for next time. :wink:

@Cassii - OK, I’ve thought of something very generalised (apologies if it’s blatantly obvious). If you’ve been used to manipulating the foreskin on uncut partners in order to avoid directly touching the head of the penis, what you’ve got to do is get him lubed up and let your lube-slippery fingers, mouth and tongue do the job that the foreskin previously did: i.e. teasing the head of his cock. Go gentle at first and ask for feedback: get him to tell you whether he wants it rougher, faster etc. If he’s been cut for a long time, he may turn out to like it rougher than you expect. On a cut penis, the skin of the head becomes tougher and not so super-sensitive as on an uncut one. Still plenty sensitive enough for fun though, IME. :slightly_smiling_face:

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It works in edits as well. :+1:

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Thanks @Ian_Chimp and @PleasureDrone I’d seen this one recommended in other threads, I was wondering about giving it a try, but the ‘external use only’ kinda puts me off - I try to always get products that are suitable for everything I might want to do so I never have to think in the moment “oh actually we’ll have to wash that off before doing xyz!”

@PleasureDrone yes, I’m intending to talk to him about it and have a little already, but early days as you say so want the spontaneity! I asked if he liked what I was doing and he was very positive about it being a yes, but I feel I don’t have as many tricks in the bag!
I think it was done a while ago, certainly implied a few years ago, so he’s got the hang of the changed sensations, so I’m trying to watch what he does and mimic that too.

Thanks for your tips, that’s what I’ve been aiming for :blush:

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I’ve previously been with two circumcised men.
One for medical reasons and one for religion I’m not sure if that makes a difference but one had more movement than the other.

So the one with more movement I used lube with and that’s the only difference I needed to make.

The second told me he can’t stand handjobs because it just doesn’t feel pleasurable at all wether that was to try and get more bjs/sex I will never know but that is what I was told :joy:

As someone else has said everyone has their own preferences anyway so I would speak to him about it or just try out different techniques and see which he seems to enjoy most :blush:

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@Newton27 - fascinating. Out of interest, which was which? In other words, which one had more movement and which less? :thinking:

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I thought so too! The one for medical reasons had more movement than the one that had it for religious reasons :slightly_smiling_face:

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Makes sense, I guess. One was done on an adult penis by a surgeon with the time to be precise; the other on a baby by a religious cleric with an imperative to be swift about it, in a situation where a few mm either way could make a lot of difference in later life…

I’m glad I had mine done when I was 24!

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I agree with the other about chafing being an issue. If you are concerned about the oil based lubes requiring washing off and so killing the moment for other things, then just find a small pump spray bottle to keep warm water in so the you can quickly re-wet the lube with one hand.

Here’s some techniques for you. If you grip his shaft below his glans, firmly enough to avoid your hand slipping on the skin, but not enough to " strangle" his shaft then draw your hand up and down, so that it takes the loose skin of his shaft up over the coronal ridge, and back, sort of like a mock foreskin. Just lube the glans, and try not to let the lube get on your fingers, as you will lose the movement of the skin.

Two handed:
1: If he has enough length, you can use both hands at the same time. Use an up down movement, while at the same time counter rotate your hands, particularly over his glans.

2: Interlink the fingers of both hands, so the finger tips of one hand touch the base between each finger of the other hand. Bring your thumbs in to form a hole (You can control the size of the hole to suit) put your hands over his shaft, and slide them down below his glans. When you bring your hands up spread your elbows out so that you can rotate your hands at the wrist to take your interlocked finger up, and over the top of his glans. So that he gets a sort of bumpy massage on his glans.

He will likely use just one of his hands at all times, so he will be used to the feel of that. If you are able to straddle him so that you can use the same hand from the same position that he does, it will match the feeling he gives himself, if you get me.

Use one hand and your mouth at the same time. Combine that with anal or perineal stimulation, if he likes that.

If you get him to lay on his side and arch is back, you can kneel behind him, so that you can play with his nipples, or balls, with your free hand, depending on which side he lays on.

If you can straddle him you can combine a hand job and a butt cheek job, by holding his cock between your butt cheeks with one hand, while rocking forward and back, to draw his shaft up and down.

Circumcised guys, become less sensitive so it will be a longer task. If you can find ways to stimulate his mind at the same time, that will help. Such as giving him sexy eyes as you give him a BJ. Warming him up first with other things will get him a bit closer too. Sort of HJ/ BJ foreplay.

I can give you some BJ techniques as well if you wish.

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Hmm. I was going to guess the opposite. :thinking: How much movement are we talking?

I had mine done when I was 18. They basically just cut it and sewed it to under my bellend. I would not say there is any movement at all.

I only have experience of my own penis though, so it could be some kind of Frankenstein creation. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thanks @anon62893628 some good ideas to try there, much appreciated :blush:

Though there doesn’t seem to be any loose skin when he’s erect, it’s probably that which has thrown me most!

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I’m not sure I agree with that. I’m certainly less sensitive than I was when I had a foreskin, but I have become accustomed to the sensation and it doesn’t take me significantly longer to do anything.

(and I have no loose skin)

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