Was having a chat with a friend last night and now honestly curious as to what you prefer when with another man
I’ll admit whilst I’m happy to switch things up I love to be bottom!
- Top
- Bottom
- Depends on mood
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100% bottom for me. Had a couple of experiences with guys and I have to say, I love being shown who’s boss 
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@Kdot80 I’m exactly the same, will top if in the mood or guy asks but I try not to most of the time!
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@forwardghoul52 yeah I swear being in the middle of that train is possibly my happiest place!
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Always bottom when the opportunity comes. Been way too long. Please send help 
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I have never had the desire to be with a guy,
but even with my wife, I would love it if she was more dominant with our pegging session’s.
so I can see the appeal of being a bottom for a dominant guy.
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I can relate. I have only ever been pegged and am also the Dom. I can see the appeal, and would hopefully learn a few things. I have had a lot of gay friends from my past try to get me to play “for the other team,” but the only attracted to femininity thing has always been a full stop for me.
Maybe now it would be different, but it’d have to be with someone I had an actual emotional attraction to. That last sentence is the part that is confusing for me though. Because I have an emotional attraction to one of my best friends who is gay, but the physical isn’t there and nothing has ever happened, despite their interest being made known.
If it were to ever happen, I think to be comfortable and enjoy the moment my GF would have to be watching. It’s always been one of her fantasies to see me in that…position. I know that marginalizes the other person in that hypothetical, which makes me feel like “I’m approaching it wrong.” But, it’s the truth. 
On the flip side as it were, I’ve never once thought about topping a man.
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I think if you were going to be curious with another guy, you would pick bottom, you can get a blowjob from a female, you can give anal BUT to experiment and suck a cock or take a cock is all new experience aome guy might want to try… and I say try it! Why not? YOLO ha
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I’m strictly a bottom orally pleasing a man is the best sex.
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I will be 100% be bottom When the opportunity comes. Have no desire to penetrate another guy or receiving oral from him, But most definitely love being penetrated and to suck another guys cock and let him cum in my mouth and ass.
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Love being bottom especially when i am Sissified and lingerie clad. I also love sucking cock to completion especially if my Mistress or her friend are watching.Also love being sucked off by Sissies,T-Girls and lingerie clad men.Plus,there is another side of me that loves to be sucked off by one of our older gentleman friends when he is not en femme.Some sort of mind set about what is or used to be called a taboo or “wrong” or immoral act.To sit there and look at one of these older men while he sucks and licks my cock in his masculine state always brings me off for some reason.A couple of these guys also love role playing the part of the “dirty old man” and will also shove their fingers up my ass,being a bottom as well as being treated this way is indeed a very sexy pleasure.
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Interesting you distinguish between sissies and lingerie clad men. I understand there is a difference but when does a lingerie clad man become a sissy? Is it more about attitude rather than dress? I get that a sissy would tend to wear more “girlie” clothes but that seems to me to come more from the attitude side first. You have mentioned that your Master also dresses sometimes. If he is dressed is it sissy style and if so does he act more sissy or still as a Master? I think this question aligns with the Top or Bottom question of the thread.
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I’ve never tried but I know I would be bottom,
I’ve submissive with my wife and would be the same with a man
Maybe one day, and yes my wife knows my thoughts and is a fantasy for her to watch
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Top is my favourite, because I’m in control 
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Hi @Pogo69 Yes,with us Sissy is more of a lifestyle which is full time.Lingerie clad men we tend to think of as that,some just like to dress sometimes to flounce about whilst others dress for sex too.My Master wears black basques,knickers and stockings plus high heels.He is still Master although sometimes when dressed like this he loves to be called Mistress.My wife and her friend plus the new woman now too love to see me all in Sissy pink with my Master/Mistress all in black lingerie.They really enjoy it when i beg “Mistress” for cock.The new woman is amazed at how much she enjoys watching these sexy scenarios play out.
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I can do both but love being bottom to my wife why she stretches my bottom
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