I am 4 months pregnant and me and my hubby haven’t had much sex since finding out due to me being anxious something woukd go wrong. We laughed and said he woukd have to go back to pleasing himself.
We have had sex a couple of times, Sunday morning i woke up early and done some housework before going back to bed for a cuddle. We chilled for a bit and he went to get his haircut. I was changing the bed and found a tissue with some warm seamen in it, i was instantly turned on and even rubbed the seamen tissue in my clit! I left the tissue there and he secretly dispossed of it when he got back. All day i was so turned on by this, we never mentioned it to each other but had some amazing sex that evening. Even thinking of it turns me on but i just hate the thought of him watching slim girls with perfect bodies on a porn site.
Girl you don’t know what porn he’s watching or that he was even watching porn!
Why don’t you show him that you’re not just a mum to be and that you are a sexual woman, masturbate in front of each other and I’m pretty sure that image would be his ‘porn’ the next few times he goes it alone.
How do you know he’s watching slim girls with perfect bodies? Don’t let that idea ruin your confidence. If he’s anything like a lot of blokes he’s watching normal women, with real bodies, curves, and imperfections. As stated, join him and be confident in your body, it’s doing a wonderful thing!
Exactly! I love plump women with all the extra curves. A lovely soft, rounded belly does it for me every time!
If only my OH was like you @Tasha12 I would love to tell her about the fun I have when I’m alone. The truth is different. Believe me, she would NOT like it at all if she knew about what I get up to.
Welcome to the forum and what a great first post too!
I wouldn’t worry too much as your the one he loves and is building a family with. Chances are he might not be watching porn and instead is fantasising about you
I love natural / real / amateur porn with real girls with normal sexual encounters with their un filtered bodies showing every mark / scar like my wife who is beautiful .
Maybe leave some tissues at the side of the bed or your pants / lube and little love note saying use these next time or let me help .
I think i’ll need to try that trick with my wife haha
In all honesty though, you have nothing to worry about and the fact you had great sex later that day is a sign of a close relationship in my view.
When I have a bit of me time, the person I think about all the time is actually my wife. I find her so sexy and it’s her that turns me on the most. Your husband could very well be the same, so it’s better to think of that scenario rather than an alternative.