What are the late 30s wearing

Lingerie
1

Morning

We (bf and I) have been invited to a Spring garden party which is very clearly hinted at a post lockdown/pandemic get your kink back sort of event.

I have been to similar things, but before kids mostly and definitely before divorce. They are not sex parties and I have never experienced any swapping/swinging at them but they are always ‘fancy dress’ which means naughty outfits for the girls, and there is usually a hot tub or similar.

The crowd who have invited me are a little too cool for school. Lots of yummy mummies with gym addictions and lots of money - far from me and my current circumstances. And it will be in a gorgeous townhouse in the centre of town.

What do the late 30s slightly bumpy and wobbly mums wear to these events these days?

Back in the day, and pre kids, I would have proudly gone in:

Or

If there is a hottub I am happy to go nude once it is dark and everyone is a bit tipsy but would prefer a fewer stretch marks on show while the evening is warming up.

Ideas?

Thanks.

Anna xxx

4 Likes
2

Gotta go the tartan! I might be bias tho

2 Likes
3

I think a sexy secretary look would be great at such an event, I think this could easily be adjusted once you are there i the vent is not as expected. Sounds like its going to be a lot of fun.

1 Like
4

Yes, but I am not making anything, and I don’t own anything!

I need suggested links!!!

5

You could try for the underwear as outer wear look. Wear something sheer or with cut aways with lingerie under. Theres lots of sexy dress/clubbing things in the shop too Here

Theres also a whole load of fierce stuff you could wear to kink event

You could also mix a body stocking (one of the ones with lace patterns) or body with some tiny shorts and a bra

Maybe one like this with some cut off denim shorts?

2 Likes
6

Thank you, some ideas there esp the clubbing section.

I am more troubled by tum, bum, and thighs than boobs and arms, if that helps.

7

Crotchless Tights or stockings are also an option if you want people to see less of your legs.

1 Like
8

I am over twice your age and have not been to that scale of party , but I would guess in a bit more top shelf get together I would vote for the Secretary outfit . Whatever you choose , have fun !

1 Like
10

That is bang on perfect for the top, perhaps with a clasp or two undone at the cleavage.

Not sure I want bikini, sarong a bit too contrasty with the top, cut off denims?

I will just go nude in the hottub

1 Like
12

I’d go with what @GoGirl12 suggested very nice :blush:

1 Like
13

What an outfit, this sounds amazing @anna.michelsburg you would be hot, hot, hot in that and then naked in the hot tub !!! People attending this event are very lucky. Hace lots of fun. @GoGirl12 a wonderful choice.

1 Like
14

Would defo need to determine body shape to know what best flatters and fit nicely :slightly_smiling_face:

15

I bought this for the OH when it was full price and it’s lush - and in the sale now! Pair it with some denim shorts and stockings and heeled boots. :wink:

1 Like
16

Some real hot ideas. Would like https://www.lovehoney.com/p/lovehoney-plus-size-fierce-wet-look-and-mesh-underwired-teddy/75003.html

17

This happened

I got the black corset which was perfect with some wet look jeans and patent heels.

No adventures at the part really. It felt a little more contrived than yesteryear and the post-covid nervousness about social contact made it all a little tame.

A nice party and met some fun people, but that is all. Sorry!

4 Likes
18

30-something. Err well, I have lived in Adidas leggings and Tesco loungewear since 2019.

Sexy, I know.

3 Likes
20

I think so.

I didn’t really spend too much time outside, I bumped in to some old friends and chatted a lot with them and I also just enjoyed being with Mark and his crowd. It was nice.

3 Likes
21

I have this and it’s lovely, the size for it though I would say is a little off it says upto a 16 the one I have I think I’m a 10/12 and it was snug on me, but this is definitely something different.

Have a little look up and you can see me in a pic in it maybe we are the same body type I’ve had 4 children so have a mummy tummy. I’m sure you will look stunning and definitely stand out! You may need something to tame them boobs though lol :joy: x x :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::heart_eyes::kissing_heart: