Me and my OH usually still have the TV on most of the time it just fades into the background but can be a distraction. I feel like the silence would be awkward for us and music (once you’ve decided what!) can be just as distracting
But what about you? Have you got a go to playlist? Prefer the silence? Ambient music tracks?
We shag with no music or TV mostly. We’ve found that if the music has a rhythm, he gets dragged onto that rhythm. We don’t find the silence difficult, and when I’m shagging, I don’t hear the music anyway because I’m so focussed.
We have an Alexa in the bedroom with a countdown app for our timed activities (eg masturbate with the wand for 15 mins) but we also listen to music of various types such as rock, romantic or whatever. When we’re feeling particularly kinky we have been known to have sex to Test Match Special.
Most of the time the TV is on in the background, but we never pay attention to it the only noise I hear is him moaning with pleasure when I’m giving him a blowjob
While doing sexy stuff? Never telly - far too distracting. Either silence or some lyricless music off the radio - Radio 3, for instance. Very rarely I might have 6Music on, but who can focus on sex with a DJ jabbering away?
This is assuming I’m not getting off to porn, of course.
Sometimes it’s just the noises we’re making. Other fun nights we may play any of choice music she selects. There are certain tunes that get her really going. Jazzy, stripper music type
Not wanting to derail the thread, but on a side-note…
D’ye know what drives me up the wall? When I’m surfing porn, find something that looks like it might float my boat (I prefer home-made/amateur stuff) …and it turns out the participants have got some mindless thumpy-thumpy music going on. Totally kills any mood. I want to hear the participants’ reactions, not crap dance music!
I used to love having porn on in the background with my ex! So did she! That never happened with my current OH! Me and my ex used to imagine it was another couple getting it on in the same room
I have a playlist on my Spotify ‘sensual’ and I have that playing on my Alexa. I’ll tend to add music as I go I am ashamed to admit a lot of it is 50 shades soundtrack but the music is far better than the film!
For normal ‘vanilla’ evenings then nothing but if we have arranged a long play session then I have playlists. If were are being kinky I have a slightly more intense platlist than if were not. No tv though … unless were having a quickie downstairs
I was shagging him reverse cowgirl on the sofa not long after we first got together, as a quickie with the TV on, and I found him ogling Kirstie Allsopp!
What are the best songs on your sex playlist. I want to build a playlist but am not sure where to start. Personally not a fan of most playlists on Spotify. What songs are a must in my sex playlist?