What do you listen to in the bedroom?

Me and my OH usually still have the TV on :joy_cat: most of the time it just fades into the background but can be a distraction. I feel like the silence would be awkward for us and music (once you’ve decided what!) can be just as distracting :yum:

But what about you? Have you got a go to playlist? Prefer the silence? Ambient music tracks?

1 Like

We shag with no music or TV mostly. We’ve found that if the music has a rhythm, he gets dragged onto that rhythm. We don’t find the silence difficult, and when I’m shagging, I don’t hear the music anyway because I’m so focussed.

4 Likes

Mellow magic

2 Likes

We have an Alexa in the bedroom with a countdown app for our timed activities (eg masturbate with the wand for 15 mins) but we also listen to music of various types such as rock, romantic or whatever. When we’re feeling particularly kinky we have been known to have sex to Test Match Special.

2 Likes

Most of the time the TV is on in the background, but we never pay attention to it :rofl: the only noise I hear is him moaning with pleasure when I’m giving him a blowjob

1 Like

My wife snoring mostly! :joy::joy:

6 Likes

We have a fan on but we never have anything else on because we are listening to each other and listening just in case we hear the kids

1 Like

While doing sexy stuff? Never telly - far too distracting. Either silence or some lyricless music off the radio - Radio 3, for instance. Very rarely I might have 6Music on, but who can focus on sex with a DJ jabbering away?

This is assuming I’m not getting off to porn, of course. :wink:

2 Likes

We just tend to have the TV on in the background, mostly so the neighbours don’t hear or it at least muffles it out for them

1 Like

Sometimes it’s just the noises we’re making. Other fun nights we may play any of choice music she selects. There are certain tunes that get her really going. Jazzy, stripper music type

1 Like

Not wanting to derail the thread, but on a side-note…

D’ye know what drives me up the wall? When I’m surfing porn, find something that looks like it might float my boat (I prefer home-made/amateur stuff) …and it turns out the participants have got some mindless thumpy-thumpy music going on. Totally kills any mood. I want to hear the participants’ reactions, not crap dance music!

That’s it. Rant over. Move along… :wink:

6 Likes

Birds!
Especially at day break which is getting earlier and earlier
Right now, evening song from a blackbird

3 Likes

In our previous house, the neighbours.

1 Like

I used to love having porn on in the background with my ex! So did she! That never happened with my current OH! Me and my ex used to imagine it was another couple getting it on in the same room

1 Like

I have a playlist on my Spotify ‘sensual’ and I have that playing on my Alexa. I’ll tend to add music as I go I am ashamed to admit a lot of it is 50 shades soundtrack but the music is far better than the film!

For normal ‘vanilla’ evenings then nothing but if we have arranged a long play session then I have playlists. If were are being kinky I have a slightly more intense platlist than if were not. No tv though … unless were having a quickie downstairs :rofl:

I was shagging him reverse cowgirl on the sofa not long after we first got together, as a quickie with the TV on, and I found him ogling Kirstie Allsopp! :joy::rofl:

6 Likes

Some of my playlist is from the film. I love the music. Annie Lennox’s version of I put a spell on you, is so sexy.

1 Like

Yes it really is!!! I also love the account of version of Crazy in Love

What are the best songs on your sex playlist. I want to build a playlist but am not sure where to start. Personally not a fan of most playlists on Spotify. What songs are a must in my sex playlist?