What makes us cum the most

I have realised that certain things make me cum more than others and have different oos I’ve ask my fella and he’s said the same certain porn or toys or positions what you guys think x??

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Oh definitely. An orgasm in doggy is different to a cow girl orgasm. An orgasm with a wand is different to an orgasm from oral and whilst the wand is more explosive, I often prefer the oral orgasm :heart: I say, mix it up :raised_hands:t2:

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I prefer a deep penetration orgasm as I feel like it hits that spot especially when I’m riding that feeling of I’m in control but the all definitely feel different xx

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Hands down :raised_hands: my hubby gives me the best ones, most amazing and most intense orgasms ever.
Yeah, my toys do make me cum, my Pro40 is the best toy to give me an orgasm. But they feel different to what hubby gives me.
No matter what position we’re in, he makes me cum. But to get the most intense ones, it has to be deep penetration, so he can hit all the places. He can even make me orgasm without touching me. Or thinking about him even makes me orgasm, having a dirty mind and great visual definitely works :face_with_hand_over_mouth: I much prefer the ones hubby gives me :smirk:

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Mmm glad he can hit those deep spots babe his he big :eyes:haha yeah it’s just makes me cum intense and end up creamy x

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Slow deep thrusting whilst he is gently rubbing my clit makes me cum hard. He has a knack of getting me there just about when he is ready to shoot his load.
I think he is often brought to orgasm by my being on the edge. It certainly gets him there.

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Different orgasms occur with different textures and sensations!

I can orgasm without touch at all, it takes a lot of thought process and a filthy mind or great visuals.

I love the sensual touch of a tongue on my clit, but that is completely different to rubbing my clit against his shaft whilst I’m riding him.
Which is different still to a freezing cold glass dildo. Which is different to a vibrating pair of rabbit ears or vibrator!
Let alone being stimulated via skin-on-skin touch by either my partner or myself.

So many things make my cum but they are all different.
It’s important for us to work out what works for ourselves and communicate that to our partners to be able to pleasure us in the future :heart:

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Build up and lots of foreplay make for the best orgasms. The brain is the true source of the best pleasure.

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Hot, sweaty boy sex. When I’m in my boy form and needing some deep anal, and my husband grabs my shoulders toward the end and thrusts as deep inside me as possible. That moment where he’s simultaneously cumming inside me and I’m dribbling out the last few drops of mine while my pelvic muscles are aching.

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Abstinence, teasing each other for days, a qiuck rub here, a cheeky glimpse there, the odd flirty text. And then going at it passionately, raw unabashed sex is fantastic and gets us both to orgasm in quick, but not too quick time.

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For me, an orgasm from toys is a lot more intense physically but the orgasm I get from penetration with my partner is so much more satisfying bc the emotional orgasm entwines with the physical.

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Oral is a close second for me but the orgasm from my Hitachi wand is just the most intense.

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For me it’s definitely the mood and space I have that helps which I often don’t get living with parents so am very restricted lol

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Reading these emphasis my point of being so lucky to have a clitoris. The different orgasms that can be had from one is amazing. Having an orgasm when having close sensual sex with my wife is amazing. Cunting inside her n staying in afterwards till ready to go again is truly something you can’t have unless you love someone. But manually a wank with your cock. Is the same story every time. Going anal n looking for the p spot is a different story. I have had a p orgasm once n is the best orgasm iv ever had. The build up is sensational, from toes to fingers tingling. Pre cum everywhere, then it starts n lasts for ages! A clit is a lot easier to find than prostate, never take having one for granted!

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For my wife it is me caressing her nipples whilst she is on me cowgirl or whilst me fingering her and rubbing her clit. For me it is the sight of my wife in lingerie giving me a bj or reverse cowgirl

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The best whole body orgasms happen for me when on top with clitoral stimulation. Think it is a combination of g spot, ?A spot and clitoral all in one. I can’t really function after one of those lol

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I’m the same my best orgasms happen if I have clit, g-spot and a-spot all being hit at the same time. A-spot orgasms if one using a dildo or having anal sex with OH can be very intense as well.

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@steviefun i cannot for the life in me get the hang of cowgirl!! Which is so stupid because I literally rode horses for most of my life so you’d think I’d have some residual balance and rhythm that would have translated :joy::joy:

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My mind has a lot to do with it. Sometimes the right word or phrase ends in a massive orgasm too.

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@luscious_laura i have the hitachi and my orgasms ate so intense my legs shake its a pity it only has 2 settings.

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