What's a guy to buy???

Hi all just joined and looking for a little advice,

My girlfriend has bought many things from here and surprises me with sexy lingerie and toys.

I never know what to buy for her as a surprise, I once bought the bed restraint cause she likes me to take control and she loved it. Any other ideas or recommendations would be much appreciated.

Does she have a wish list? That'd be the easiest way to get her something she'd really like.

If she doesn't, do you know the kinds of toys she likes?
Or has she talked about any particular fantasies that you could encourage with a toy or outfit?

One good trick is upgrading her favorite toy, if she hasn't got many luxury toys. For example, if she loves a battery powered bullet you could look for a waterproof recharable one that's got good reviews. It'd be bound to be a hit if you knew she already loves bullets.

Hope this is helpful. If you let me know what she's got already I could give some more specific suggestions :)

There's lots of gift sets on here. Or how about a massage type set with oils and candles. Hot stones etc

Yes the wish list sounds good. It easier if she had one. On the other note you should talk to here and find out what she likes and then maybe surprise here. It sounds to me you need to talk more about sex and your fantasies and toys then you will have idea what toys to buy. Mebe try to that she has not got.

Unfortunately there is no wish list to go by she hasn't created one.
We are very open when talking about sex and experiment all the time with new things.
Her favourite is a vibrator which is really soft to the touch which drives her wild. I have been looking at a wand but I'm unsure of if it is going to be to hard which we have found with some vibrators and bullets. Anyone own a wand and could advise on this?

If you're looking for soft vibrators, these ones maybe? Not as powerful as wands though

Tenga Iroha http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27458

Tenga Tori Iroha + http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35265

Je Joue Mimi Soft http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35579

Thank you for your reply :)

we recently purchased one of these and it was amazing.

Looking to add something a little different which was where the wands were mentioned. Have you got any experiance with using the wands?

I absolutely love my doxy wand and I don't even normally enjoy external vibrations. I have the die cast but I imagine the original is pretty similar http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/doxy/ It's amazingly rumbly. At lower speeds it gently brings me to orgasm and at higher speeds it rips them from me so can be used for forced orgasms. Men can also use wands, but I can't really comment on that so I'll refer you to https://thebiggayreview.com/gay-mans-guide-wand-massagers/

You can also get attachments for wands http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/buyers-guide/magic-wand-vibrator-attachments-fitting-guide/

If you haven't already, glass might be something interesting to try. I have both of these glass sets: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34295 I love the black one in the butt plug set but not the clear one so only think it's value for money when it's reduced, which it is now.

Thank you for advice, definitely like the looks of the glass dildo set, something completely different that we have never looked at.

Also the wand is still something that I sure she would love

If it's your first wand try the FSOG holy cow wand. Or the LH Desire wand (on sale now).

Great vibrations and has a soft silicone coating so really luxurious to touch. Also waterproof and wireless

Thanks JJ those wands look exactly what I am looking for