...that take a while to cum? I've read reviews and posts about girls who get off quickly, within minutes and so far I've never been able to do that. I wanna know if there's girls out there that take longer, are there any girls who can only use one type of vibe? I've noticed now that only rabbits get me off, I've got a bullet, a long vibe and a finger vibrator but nothing does anything for me like my rabbit. I don't know if it's normal, maybe I'm not as sensitive but buying toys that don't do anything is getting annoying. Is there anyone else out there like this?
My OH takes ages - I have to engage in loads o foreplay, but she tells me she is kept on edge of cumming or ages! To be honest I love it, because we get lots of time to tease her and for us to do loads of things - and her orgasms are huge when they happen!
My OH takes a while, less time when she's well relaxed.
I guess everybody is different and there is probably some reporting bias.
If a toy is amazing and gets you off in 2mins you tell people, if it doesn't then there isn't anything to shout about!
Well my other half takes ages to orgasm through penetrative sex but with my hands it's a lot quicker and with toys it can be neigh instant.
It can take me longer to come from having sex than using a toy.
Have you tried squeezing your breasts whilst you use your other toys? Watching porn? Using a lubricant that makes you more sensitive?
I take longer if i'm tired, stressed or have had a drink. If i think about it i start to get uptight and it takes ages again, other times especially if i use my vibes it can be too quick, i like to use a rabbit and a bullet
It took me ages yesterday when I was using my rabbit because I kept being texted and called by friends and family. Bad times. =(
I had my clit pierced a while a go and boy has that made a difference!! sensitivity is amaaazing!! :)
I cant through sex alone, never have, I need helping hands. With a bullet you are talking mins. Everyone is different and it has taken a long time to work out what works for us, but thats part of the fun xxx
minksie wrote:
I had my clit pierced a while a go and boy has that made a difference!! sensitivity is amaaazing!! :)
Clit or hood?
I've heard many women lose sensitivity in their clits if that's pierced.
Little Lady wrote:
It can take me longer to come from having sex than using a toy.
Have you tried squeezing your breasts whilst you use your other toys? Watching porn? Using a lubricant that makes you more sensitive?
Porn does help me get off with other toys but the setting isn't very arousing, I don't have 'dvds' just the internet.
I've come from penatration and rubbing my clit but only once and with a boyfriend years ago. I don't even get sensitive enough anymore to touch myself with my fingers, my boyfriend does a better job but I never even get close. Just intense pleasure, I tried using my rabbit with him but I couldn't get over the top, unless it skipped. I lost my orgasm a few months ago to stress and it's just come back but is a little less intense then it used to be, well I mean, it's intense but not like my old ones. I just find I need really strong vibrators these days. Like my blue rabbit, but it eats batteries!
bohohippy wrote:
I've come from penatration and rubbing my clit but only once and with a boyfriend years ago. I don't even get sensitive enough anymore to touch myself with my fingers, my boyfriend does a better job but I never even get close. Just intense pleasure, I tried using my rabbit with him but I couldn't get over the top, unless it skipped. I lost my orgasm a few months ago to stress and it's just come back but is a little less intense then it used to be, well I mean, it's intense but not like my old ones. I just find I need really strong vibrators these days. Like my blue rabbit, but it eats batteries!
Try a mains or rechargeable vibrator. More power and no more battery buying!
I often take a long time to come, especially when stressed.
Guess it depends where you're starting the timer from. :) If I'm just going in cold (or with just a little bit of aroual), it takes 20-30mins, but if I've been fantasising, or teased by myself or someone else while out and about, I can be so wound up that by the time I start playing I'll be done in a few minutes.
It takes me a while too with a rocket vibrator, but my RO-80 is so strong I come within 5 minutes, seriously.
It really depends with me. I have toys that can bring me to orgasm in under a minute, but it's never a very satisfying orgasm. My rabbit is usually the best for dragging it out, but is COMPLETELY worth the wait. I can usually expect to wait 10-20 minutes for my first orgasm, but I've been known to have up to four if I keep playing long enough.
i find havign my nipples played with speeds it up for me...i love to have an orgasm by my clit being played with then another with penetraton is always amazing..but then I guess I am just greedy lol
Haha, you aren't greedy, I once masterbated for 4 hours =]
I don't since, since losing my orgasm first off (due to stress apprantly and I have 0 sex drive when single) now I'm with a partner my sex drive is higher than it's ever been... I say I'm new at masterbating because I do it rarely but lately I've done it almost every other week and it's getting more and more. I've got a bullet, normal silver vibe (off this side £3.99), erm a waterproof vibe i haven't used yet, that stuff that makes you more sensitive, play lube, the basic's finger vibrator and my blue rabbit.
if anyones read this, I read a book called The Big O and it says for a women to orgasm she needs to be expanded inside. Which is probs why the rabbit gets me there. lol I suggest the book to everyone!!!
I really think it depends on the person hunny, try not to get yourself so worked up over it. Plus for me its not all about the orgasm, I like the feeling i get before hand so i'm never in a particular rush to orgasm anyway. Normally i would say around 10-20 minutes for me, but i have orgasmed a few times within 5 minutes with toys. I find that if the vibes are weaker it takes longer, but it tends to be more intense when it does happen. As long as you are happy with it then i wouldn't be too worried! :)
LK xxx