Hi there. Just a quick question: what are your preferred toys to use for clit stimulation during intercourse? Preferrably to have her orgasm as intercourse is fun but not enough to finish. We use a wand occassionaly but it is quite large and gets in the way sometimes. Been looking at specific clit stimulaters like Womanizer, Desire clit toys, etc. Open to other suggestions as well.
I find that most of the Womanizer style toys are difficult to use during intercourse, bar the new mini Starlet, so I would recommend a bullet instead. I rate the Desire Bullet very highly, one of my faves and it’s great during sex :)
NatandTom wrote:
I find that most of the Womanizer style toys are difficult to use during intercourse, bar the new mini Starlet, so I would recommend a bullet instead. I rate the Desire Bullet very highly, one of my faves and it’s great during sex :)
+ 1 for that. I also love the Tango, but my hubby find the vibrations quite intense, so I keep it more for solo play.
My wife is a big fan of the Mini wand. It's small enough to use during sex, still has quite a broad head (4.5" circumference), and it's both reasonably quiet and light. It has between 30-50 minutes runtime depending on whether you have it on full power the whole time.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37806
She also likes the VeDo Luv. It hasn't got a 'low' setting, it just starts on bazzy and intense and then you crank it up higher. 🙂 It's also got a broad face on one side and a little nub for precision on the opposite side.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38651
The Womanizers are brilliant. I mean birthday present brilliant. You should definitely buy her one. 🙂 But using one during sex is a bit tricky as they need a good seal to work effectively, so any vigorous movements can knock it off and it'll need repositioning. It's not impossible, but I prefer the wand or the bullet.
I'd probably go for a bullet as they're quite small, so unlikely to get in the way.
YouMeAtSex wrote:
I'd probably go for a bullet as they're quite small, so unlikely to get in the way.
The mini wand is good as it has a nice handle so you can get quite comfortable with it. A bit like a bullet on a stick. But you don't have to stick to super small toys, some of the medium toys are also quite fun. You may be restricted by position and your general physique, but they're still worth considering.
The So Divine Wicked is a nice medium sized wand. I think this is the biggest toy we've used during actual sex, but it's not ridiculous. It's got some good rumbles that travel well, both for her and me. For us it works well when Mrs Chimp is lying on her back with her ankles over my shoulders. That way I can lean back for more space, or lean forward and hug it between us.
I forgot about cockrings. They're not as targeted as having a dedicated clit toy but you may want to check them out anyway.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/#h1
I regularly use my womanizer 2 go, it's usually the most reliable for me. Can only use it in certain positions though, me on top (either reverse or forward), spoons but when I raise one leg and hook it over him (does that have a name? I'm not good at position names), or when I'm on my front wedged up on my liberator wedge. I find the 2 go easier to direct and hold on to during sex than the other models. I think this works for me because if it's on strong enough it's very intense and all I need to do is hold it in place. For me to come using a bullet or other clitoral vibe I'll need to move it around, which can be a bit too much to think about whilst enjoying or controlling the motion of sex. Can be done though :)
I've been considering this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22172 for use during sex. I haven't purchased it yet so can't speak from experience but it has 4/5 stars and the reviews seemed good. Maybe somebody on here has experience of this toy!
We have this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32603 If you can get your hand there this fits amazing in the palm.
I've found air tech toys like the womanizer aren't great for use during penetrative sex, or anything that involves too much movement. I personally like mini wands as their small, powerful and the flexible necks stop them jabbing too much compared to bullets :)
We recently bought the We-vibe Touch specifically to use during penetration. It's a great toy, strong, rumbly vibrations and small and precise enough.
You ideally need something that can give different feelings that aren't too hard against the clit (problem with most bullets and vibes, hard and can really ruin the moment!)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33237 - another different vibe stimulation, I'll prewarn, this did result in a very messy climax for me so highly recommend! Can use fingers to apply more pressure around the little wrap ears on it too for extra sensationssssssssssss!
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38651 - I was looking at this one before - think Chimp mentioned this one further up, the material is ideal and the size again is good.
Thank you for all the replies. Very helpfull! Considering everything best might be to get the desire bullet or wevibe touch. And when ordering anyway maybe include the womanizer starlet which sounds great even when just using it solo.