Who masturbates most - you or your partner?

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It depends, I masturbate a lot, but then get masturbated by others, as well as my partner and lovers.

If you count my partner masturbating me as him masturbating, we'd masturbate on a similar level.

My partner spends a lot of time with me too, so often when he feels horny we just end up having sex. Partly it's because of me, wanting sex. But it has brought up the question about whether or not in the future, will he miss masturbating, even if he is getting so much attention from me? I think it's important to have some personal time to touch and feel your own body, and I know, that I would miss it. Heck even when I have sex 6 times a day, I still want some 'Me Time'. =)

But anyway I guess it is I who wanks the most. Oh forgot when I test toys I also wank way more too.

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I have no idea. Maybe him? I hadn't really considered it...

23

That would be me.. I have a sky high sex drive. He rarely wanks but if he has to then its cause im not feeling it or away as usually id jump him before he would get a chance to.

24

Definatly me, solo, when we are together and during sex.

25

Me and my OH knows it...but then we are apart a lot and I have a very high sex drive . I quite like telling him too tbh

26

My OH is a regular to this, mainly because he works insane hours and if im not around he needs quick release to de-stress.
Unfortunately I never masturbate as I never learnt to give myself pleasure(sad story) it just makes me lonely and frustrated for his company to finish me off! Pity, if I could, it would be every night!

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Me, defo me, I.work from home and do it everyday mostly! Couldn't cope without it I don't think, tho I've only learnt in the last few months how to actually get myself off!!! Hence my current love for it lol

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Me having so much fun at the minute.

29

Long distance relationship, my OH does it atleast once a day, usually at least 3 times.

30

In my last relationship, it was definitely me. By miles. Caused a few rows...

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him! i dont even need to think twice about it! ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

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Definitely me, my oh couldn't keep up lol

33

Me, most days. Him, never...so he insists!

34

I've honestly no idea...

I'd be inclined to say I masturbate the most, simply because I do at least once a day (it's very rare that it is actually just once a day).

35

Me, by faaar! She very rarely ever masturbates unless it's during foreplay.

36

In the last 2 relationships I have masturbated more than my partners by a long shot.

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my OH

38

Definitely me, got a really high sex drive and want it constantly.We sometimes do together during sex or foreplay, I love watching her get herself off.

39

Definitely me, my OH wont do it by himself.

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I would say My OH used to masturbate more than me, but now i would say me. I could be wrong and she just doesnt tell me anymore ;)