Besides, at least part of the joy of flirting outrageously is the knowledge that one is safe from having it taken any further than one wants. So the flirting is more likely to be more extreme than might otherwise happen, because people know it's safe to do so.
that is true! and anyways the subtleties of flirting are always lost over the internet
I'd be interested in meeting up with some people off here, some for social reasons and some for sexual reasons, although the sexual side of it will have to stay a fantsy as I'm married but I think it would be a good idea
I would guess there quite possibly has, at some point in OA/LH history, been a meeting or two...
But in my past quite a few of my encouters I have kept hush hush IRL - i.e. we didn't even tell mutual friends... so maybe there are a couple that have happened that have been kept quiet? Maybe not, but it's one thought that sprung to mind.
Perhaps some kind of Voyeur/Exhibitionist thread might fit the bill here? I mean like, some designated place where the voyeurs can read and the exhibitionists can post?
hrmm and how would you be able to meet, cause the first few would have to be in public. and if you see anyfriends while out (if in a hometown) how do you explain how you met the other person. Its bad enough saying you met over the internet but on a sex shop website?
I met my OH through a forum... not this one though, a rock forum. (and then 3 little years later i stopped being an idiot and actually agreed to go out with him... lmao fool that i was)