On Wednesday I am being given the reigns and I have an hour where I’m in
charge! Guys I would love some advice on what I can do to my other half
to rock his world please.... I have restraints and cock rings and
ticklers and a pin wheel and blindfold.... Thank you!! J Xx
Sexy lingerie is must in my opinion. Leave him some naughty notes to
add to suspense. Tie him down and use the blindfold and expose him to as
many sensations as possible all over his body. From top to bottom and
follow he same paths with each sensation. Add music to enhance the mood.
Don’t use thecock ring straight away wait till he’s extra horny then put
it on. Also try having sex cowgirl. It gives you more control, you can
keep the blindfold on and make him beg for it.
In my opinion it drives me crazy when my OH sends me naughty and teasing
messages throughout the day. Really builds up the anticipation. Use
the blindfold, not only will it make add to the tension and atmosphere
it will also help you to feel more comfortable if you aren’t use to
being in charge. In my opinion teasing can really add to the
experience, make him feel like he has to earn everything that you are
doing to him. Don’t forget about yourself aswell, he will probably
enjoying giving you the attention as much as you will receiving it,
after all you are in charge and can make him do as you please. I would
advise that boundaries are established so that you are aware if you are
maybe taking it a little to far. Safe words are important. Most
importantly be safe and have fun! :)
Ah thank you so much, these comments have really helped. I’m excited
about it. I’m the natural sub so this will be a healthy and exciting
challenge for me!! J x
If he's ever revealed a fantasy he has to you, try incorporating some
of that in. Keep him on his toes wondering how far you are gonna take
him and surprise him.
Wow what a night he is up for. For me I would want to be tied up and
teased and made to earn the right for the pleasure. Something that
would turn me on is being forced to sit tied up watching my OH pleasure
herself slowly and asking me how much I want her. When she feels I have
said the right things then I am allowed to use my mouth on her whilst
still tied up. If I keep getting it right then I may get touched for
the first time, do something wrong and I might get punished with say a
butt plug, or miss out altogether on any pleasure. what ever you choose
to do, just know he will enjoy every part of it.
As you say that normally you are the sub , then perhaps the blindfold
is going to be a must. Once blindfolded you can take your time on
pleasuring him and it doesnt matter if you feel a little clumsy as he
can't see you. Lingerie wise dont go for a submissive colour like white.
Black or red would be a good choice . Him being naked and you in
lingerie will also help to dictate as to who is in charge. Just remember
to keep to your boundaries as its easy to get a little carried away and
make sure he enjoys what your doing .Its good to switch roles
occasionally and adds a little spice to the relationship. Good luck
Thanks for asking that question Juicytic, I'm getting some ideas too. 😋
If you naturally fall into the sub role this is excellent because you
have the mindset of what turns you on from a dominant. It’s all about
the build up, the teasing and the control. Orgasm denial is hugely
exciting, to jerk him off fast to almost hitting orgasm and then
stopping to tease him with a tickler or pinwheel some more will soon get
him completely under your reigns. Facesitting is great if you feel
comfortable doing this, either reverse or just saddled so you can use
his mouth for your own pleasure. Another form of teasing would be to tie
him down and have your lady parts just out of tongues reach, let him
feel the warmth and scent of you but don’t let him have it. The
pheromones alone will drive him wild with excitement! Spanking is fun
and if he like CBT (cock and ball torture) then gently spanking his
balls or gripping his penis firmly is a fun sensation, just make sure
you have a safety word and communicate to ensure your both comfortable.
Domination should be fun and edgy but shouldn’t actually harm the sub in
any form, it’s really to put them in a state of euphoria and pleasure
beyond control ☺️. A lot of femdom videos will include a lot of butt
play, spanking, candle wax and teasing. Chastity devices are good too
and can be super fun. So maybe watch one or two of these and just get
some ideas.