Okay, FINALLY made my choices and put in my Birthday order last night 
Thank you to all who expressed an opinion here - much appreciated as I am so indecisive!
In the end I went with the Lelo Ina Wave, the Rose Gold Clit Clamp and the Leather Chain Harness to go with an awesome leather thong I got from here ages ago that is sadly no longer stocked but, fingers crossed, I think they’ll look great together.
I did not get the Pussy Pump Tongue though it is the one chosen for a future purchase, thanks forum, as after a few recent nights out and in I decided it was time to get him something I can control. Won’t mention what exactly in case he reads this but quality app controlled that hopefully he’ll like 
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Also, an additional fun stocking filler that I will probably get far more amusement from than he will but should be worthy of giggles! 
