A girl I know is on OnlyFans

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I recently found out that someone I know has a NSFW Reddit page, and an OnlyFans page. I only recently found out and I’ve not seen either, but I’m told that she posts some really spicy stuff incl DP, girl on girl, threesomes, swinging etc. All the stuff I’d usually be super into! Apparently it’s incredibly kinky.

My dilemma is that some part of me wants to see it, but another part of me feels a little uneasy about it. Then I also wonder if she doesn’t want people she knows to see it; or what if I might also know one of the people she’s ‘working’ with, etc.

My question is this: would you look at her page if you were in my position? If so, why so? If not, why not? Would you look at the Reddit but not the OF, etc.

I won’t lie, I’m not particularly close to this person. We’ve been out together as part of the same group for drinks, and probably will bump into each other again at some point in the future. She is really pretty, and I do love the kind of content I’m told she’s putting out.

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Presumably, if she’s made herself visible on Only Fans, she’s not worried about being seen by anyone, including people who know her.

I think, given these circumstances, that I would definitely have a look at her page.

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Probably curiosity would get the better of me, and I would look at the reddit page.

Had a similar experience with Readers Wives section in Fiesta magazine, when stumbling across pictures of someone I knew, but had no idea that they were into the glamour scene.

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I think you could reasonably assume that, but I’ve seen some social media stuff from other creators who have said things like:

  1. if you stumble across their content then that’s fine but please leave once you realise, or
  2. if you know they’re on it then please don’t seek it out.

Some obviously just don’t care.

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She probably wouldn’t mind people who knew her to see her page , I do only fans, I have people I use to know look at my page a lot

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Fair call. I think that this is a bit more extreme though hahah.

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I feel you’re probably right. Not sure I’d want to ask though haha

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Additional question - if you did look at it, would you masturbate over it? Or is that too far?

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Think masturbation is a little weird and a little too far in my honest opinion.

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Depends how extreme her channel is , you could masterbate over anything on her channel I’m sure she would be fine with it , she would never know unless you pay to see her content

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I’m not sure on what to think about selling yourself online - morally it’s wrong - but as long as you’re not hurting anyone then go for it.

I’m my day I knew a girl who did a porn magazine in the 80’s and when I saw the images they were classy and sexy - my only concern now is the images could fall into the hands of others in the future who could use against her

I feel you should talk to her and make her aware you know and take it from there

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I think that you are overthinking this situation. She is making money from what she is doing, so by watching you will be contributing to her earnings. She must have few hang ups to star on these platforms so I don’t think that you should be concerned.

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Can’t you block certain countries on OF? So if she had concerns about anyone she knows seeing it, then she’d have set her privacy settings that way. And I don’t think you can take a blanket approach, that bc some people have said ‘if you see me, back away slowly’ and apply that to everyone. If she’s not blocked UK, then its open to view. But I would say to discuss it with your partner and see how they feel about it.

If you look at either account, and then bump into her…would you feel awkward? Take your answer from that and how your partner feels about it.

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Hey… you flat out say you are not close so snoop away as far as I am concerned.

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The thought of seeing one of my mates on only fans proper turns me on i probably would masterbate to it. I have pictures of female friends naked that they have sent to me and sometimes I masterbate to them.

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My noseyness means I wouldn’t be able to not! :joy:

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Hey Gareth! I don’t disagree with all replies you have had but do disagree with many, Anyone that posts sexual content to the net will knock that anyone can see it and there is no way of taking it back. I would suggest you say you saw them on Only Fans and thought it was hot. They will then know you check out online porn. Just don’t be creepy about it, be supportive. You don’t know if she is doing it for secxual expressition or money.

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Definitely fine if they’re publishing content. The people I know on OF tend to want people they know to be safe to collaborate :sweat_smile:

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Personally I would treat it like it’s not my business. It definitely doesn’t need to be brought up to her face. Sex work isn’t really consent and while it is public and out there and it’s always a possibility, it’s just not really something you need to bring up.