Hug guys always loved to squirt but never have wondering if you have any tips on me achieving it ? X
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My wife only began squirting at the age of 69. It’s not something she conciously tried for but once it started it became more and more frequent.
For her it happens when she is brought to orgasm slowly and edged for a while with a medium wand or bullet. When she finally comes she squirts or ejaculates.
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Thanks I felt like I have been close before but never been sure I would like to experience it myself first form self play they I can guide him on what to do x
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I cannot offer any advice but certainly wish you luck at achieving it. Welcome to the forum. I think squirting must be a tremendous turn on. Good luck @masonbergin0161
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Thank you and I’m hoping I will soon just need advice on how to get there as I’m unsure or if I’m doing something wrong x
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From what i’ve read on here the most important thing is that you are very relaxed. 
As I’ve not got the correct anatomy to achieve this I can only go on what the OH has said it’s all about the ridges just a few inches inside! And firm pressure! We have found the mantric toys work wonders 
and staying hydrated helps massively with my OH but I’m im sure there’s plenty of more experienced people to point you in the right direction on this forum! And if I can say one thing once you figure it out and start it’s very hard not to do it any more but it’s so worth it 
Thanks just hoping they can give me some advice on this xx
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G spot toys are my go to if I want to squirt. Glass or steel are probably preferable. Although saying that, some silicone ones have made me soak my sheets. I find ones that have a good curve or a bigger bulbous end work wonders.
There’s only been a handful of guys/girls that have managed to do it using fingers alone. Some just know how to find the exaaaact spot.
It’s definitely worth trying to achieve this alone in the first instance, then you can guide others!
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Thank you so much I have been looking at some recently that have great reviews I am going to purchase one see how it goes I have been what I thought was close before but never have done it so very much looking forward to achieving it x
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I 1st squirted from oral sex with a partner 35+ years ago…I always pushed him away as thought I was going to pee…I’d not seen squirting porn or heard of it back then…this particular time I knew I had just been for a pee so ignored the urges to push him away and then it happened…felt amazing and continued to do so.
I never masturbated till the last 10 years or so…and was with that original partner for 9 years…the others afterwards didn’t make me squirt.
Then after learning how my body works from self exploration I squirt everytime now from oral…PIV…anal…and from clitoral stimulation and also internal stimulation or a combination of all of them. The mantric bullet…wand and g-spot rabbit with ears are my go to toys for getting there.
It’s taken a long time to get where I am now…trusting partners and learning to let go. Being brought up in the era where if females liked sex or masturbated were classed as easy or “slags”. I’m so pleased things have changed now in sex ed and young girls are told that it’s healthy to masturbate.
So the best advice is to relax and don’t put pressure on yourself to squirt…trust your partner enjoy it and if it feels good keep at it.
And something to soak it up…A huge towel because no matter how big…
“We’re gonna need a bigger boat” springs to mind.
Have fun.
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Wow thank you so much Jill you have helped me see it through a different i always have wanted to achieve this because it has become wildly wanted and more recognisable I am so lucking forward to achieving that’ and if you have any more help me would be massively appreciated xx
I would echo @CurvyJilly and say to not stop once you’ve orgasmed or push your partner away as that is when it used to happen for me.
I have only squirted once through gspot stimulation, every other time has been through clit stimulation. I can’t squirt if I have a dildo or penis inside me and I need to pull the dildo/penis out at the right moment for me to squirt. Even just using a wand or suction toy is enough to get me there the majority of the time.
I used to orgasm and then squirt, then it changed to squirt then orgasm and now its simultaneous. The volume is much greater now too 
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I googled it once and was going to share the link website with my wife. It sounded like a very clear easy to follow routine and they said it should achieve it. But never got around to sharing or mentioning it to my wife as don’t think she really wants to squirt 
This is interesting. Obv as a male, I can only comment based on experience with my OH.
We’ve not found any toys that help her get over the line in terms of squirting, and she has been unable to achieve it with solo play. In all fairness, she isn’t bothered by not getting there, so I doubt she’s gone to town to make it happen as it were.
The only thing we have found where she does is plenty of foreplay and clit attention, being nice and relaxed and in the moment, my fingers with come hither will then make it so.
From my male novice experience I think the most important thing is being relaxed and being present in the moment. Just read through further comments and looks like @CurvyJilly has explained that far better than me
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Indirectly a puppy pad on the bed removes the worry of making a mess so may help?
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We’ve managed it a couple of times during a bondage scene with a Doxy, but haven’t been able to routinely make it happen. I think it just takes a lot of experimentation (oh what a shame) 
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Think it might be something to do with where penetration and pressure is applied inside… 
We talked about this together before it ever happened. I asked OH if when she orgasm’d felt like she wamas going to pee. She said she did all the time which from what i knew meant it was close but she was not relaxed enough. Once I made OH feel comfortable to know that if she did pee or squirt, id be happy. After foreplay one evening and stimulating two particular areas, she let go and it happened. She said it feels amazing. Be relaxed and make each other feel comfortable, no pressure.
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