Advice on squirting??

I must be a lucky guy because my wife squirts and always has without much difficulty. Since we first ever had sex she squirts practically everytime. It is never hard to achieve or so she tells me sometimes it's a little sometimes its a lot and we often need to change the bedding. She said she has always been able to squirt ever since she discovered masturbating as a teenager. She always thought it was normal and that every girl squirted. I think from reading other posts here with fingers positioned upwards inside is the general idea to achieve "squirt" but not in our case, my wife often squirts during intercourse and other times without penetration just me using my tongue on her clit. I think every woman is different

I must be a lucky guy because my wife squirts and always has without much difficulty. Since we first ever had sex she squirts practically everytime. It is never hard to achieve or so she tells me sometimes it's a little sometimes its a lot and we often need to change the bedding. She said she has always been able to squirt ever since she discovered masturbating as a teenager. She always thought it was normal and that every girl squirted. I think from reading other posts here with fingers positioned upwards inside is the general idea to achieve "squirt" but not in our case, my wife often squirts during intercourse and other times without penetration just me using my tongue on her clit. I think every woman is different

Steviegosia, you are a very lucky guy.

Thanks teacake, Gosig and S&M sexy times. It was a fantastic Christmas present.

I've been talking to my husband today, and he thinks if I can crack the relaxation part, he can have me squirting whenever he feels like it (from finger play, not from penetrative sex). Would be fab if he has.

A bit late on this one but I too have been trying to squirt for years and last night my wish finally came true!! I am so happy and feeling quite proud of myself. I did it solo with a mantric vibrator and to be honest didn't even use the vibrations. The only advice I can give which obviously worked for me is to absolutely completely relax and just enjoy your body. I spent hours and hours touching my body and feeling different spots inside myself using the dildo and just enjoying every minute of it and all of the different sensations until the point I felt like I was going to pee I tensed several times but finally relaxed and there it all was!! I made an absolute mess and had to completely strip, wash,air everything but it was so worth it. I really didn't expect to as I just wanted to try out my new toy but will definitely be more prepared next time. Good luck and most importantly have fun!! Xx

Oh wow PrettyKitty24, another newbie squirter! Well done!

Thanks kinkymira, congratulations to you too it's such a great feeling isn't it? I'm sure you'll be able to crack the relaxation part just enjoy it and don't put any pressure on yourself or your partner :) if it helps I watched porn beforehand and went into complete fantasy mode and that really did the trick for me. I think I'm still in shock it feels like a revelation!! I've been so happy about it and been wanting to share the news but it's not something you go and tell your friends lol. I would love to do it over a guy during play or penetrative sex but am in no rush as I'm enjoying the moment!! I'm actually going to try again now :D

Yes, it is such a great feeling. I was in shock for a couple of days I think.

My husband had a giggle because the first thing I did after we finished was come on here and tell everybody. It is by far the best place for such candid discussion (or sharing your excitement).

I do have a few friends I can discuss it with, but it isn't exactly the type of thing you can ring up about is it? Much more of a thing for in the middle of a discussion about sex (which does happen a fair bit actually)

As for doing it over a guy, well mine loved it. On page 1, LNT mentioned drowning the guy - I know my husband will be trying to make that happen as it does for LNT.

We're going to try again in a few days I think, again, not pressuring me to do it again quickly. I am more relaxed though having done it once.

PrettyKitty24, did you try again and did it work? xx

OMG I soooo want to squirt!!!! It would be so amazing 😍 I need to get more practice in x