With out harping on, the OH is not really feeling the lurve at the moment, im getting turned down on a very daily basis and if we do have sex its because iv had to practically beg him (yeah i know thats a turn off but hellloooooo desperate times)
have tried sexy outfits, showering him with compliments, being mushy and romantic, being dominent.......all im getting is turned down to the point where i just cried my self to sleep last night because im just convinced he doesnt fancy me. i understand he has a tough time at work etc etc but my point is, he has the energy to go down the pub every night, stay up untill all hours watching movies etc but as soon as i mention sex he's tired. its a ridiculas and immature thing to argue about i know but its causing major issues! in the whole time we've been together TWICE he has initiated sex and made me feel like a godess, the rest of the time i feel like im pestering him for it and he's doing it just for me
any way, before i go on much more, how would you feel? am i over reacting? any ideas on how to solve it?