My husband enjoys having anal sex with me, but i only really like it when im drunk i think its because i feel more relaxed so we are wondering is there something else we could try i dont want to keep getting drunk to have anal sex . also my husband is a bit worried if he has not had a drink he will orgasm to quick . do you guys have any good tips for us . thank you
You can try with something small - fingers, butt plugs, anal beads, and gradually increasing the size to the real thing.
Has your husband tried cock rings? They are supposed to prolong errections. I would also agree with menyanthe, try something smaller first get used to relaxing. And loads of lube of course.
he owns a cock ring but not used it yet we will have to dig it out . the one problem i have i dont really get the urge for anal when sober i think its because my head is telling me thats not what its for lol and i feel a bit dirty
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1533
You could try this as it does work.
It's not dirty and definitely is what it's for ;-)
Cock rings are just great generally as well for sex,
I reckon if you keep at it long enough, plenty of lube and relax you will feel so much happier about anal sex.
kc. wrote:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1533
You could try this as it does work.
It's not dirty and definitely is what it's for ;-)
Cock rings are just great generally as well for sex,
I reckon if you keep at it long enough, plenty of lube and relax you will feel so much happier about anal sex.
Hi thank you will try this
Best advice I have take it nice and slow , lube lube lube , start off small and dont get eyes bigger than your belly .
LH have a great buyers guide -http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/
I started off with http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13085
Then got a butt plug so you are used to slipping something inside you - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 or you could buy a kit and work your way up - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539
I then got a douche - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 dead easy to use and simple and makes you clean esp when your using bigger toys as I worked my way up to an anal dildo to get to used to the fact that he will be inside me - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16726
Then I brought http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17072 to get fill what it will be like,
Honestly try it slow if you enjoy it you enjoy it its not for everyone, dont put any pressure on yourself slow and lube it taken me about 6 months to work my way up, just taken it at my own pace.
You could also try anal relaxant - http://search.lovehoney.co.uk/search?w=anal+relaxant&p=Q&asug=&view=grid
sal n dave wrote:
the one problem i have i dont really get the urge for anal when sober i think its because my head is telling me thats not what its for lol and i feel a bit dirty
Anal sex can be great, however don't feel pressurised into it.
The secret is to want it, be relaxed & use lots of lube.
Also go slowly, start with a finger or two, small plug before plunging straight in....
Thank you all for tips x