Aneros Helix Syn Silicone Prostate Massager

Ok so as you can tell this is about the Aneros Helix Prostate Massager. I've had it for a while now and used it a number of times, still unfortunately without ever reaching that "Super-O". I know that it takes time and practice. I am being patient, I just want to make sure I'm not missing some key step.

I've been reading the Aneros website to see what I should be doing to try and achieve orgasm, but I don't feel the suggestions they provide are getting me anywhere (I could be wrong). Some part of me feels that the problem is probably that I am thinking about it too much and trying to force it.

My question is ...

Can anyone recommend any websites/blogs that might be able to provide me with tips such as different techniques or stories of how that person reached orgasm using the Aneros etc that I can try to achieve the fabled Super-O.