For the last few years I have worn a bra every night for bed and find it really comforting, over the years I purchased around 30 bras of varying prices and styles usually in sales, but have since found the most comfortable are the rosie full cup bras from m&s, I own a out 20 of them now and have chucked all the rest, I wear each one for 2 or 3 nights and then rotate to the next one. Although slim I have small A cup boobs and a size 34a fits excellent, my wife fully aproves of me wearing a bra to bed and when we have sex she will usualy lift up my top so she can see and feel the bra. I dislike having to take it off in the morning as they are so comfortable but in reality I know a bra has the risk of being noticed when out in public. Am I alone In liking wearing bras? What would other women think if their partner wanted to wear a bra when at home or in the bedroom.
I have a couple of bras that are actually made for men! Supplied by a company based in the UK that specialises in making feminine lingerie for men .... which gets around a lot of the sizing issues. They are very cute and pretty, but I don't wear them a lot as I don't think I look good in them .... and like you would be afraid of the reaction if seen wearing one in public. Unfortunately my wife is not so understanding, so this is very much a solo and private activity.
I am much more a fan of wearing stockings, tights, suspender stockings and the like. I find it a very sensual process putting them on (especially if I have just shaved my legs) and love the way I look and feel in them. It's like a second skin that actually fits better than my real skin (lol). I prefer fabrics with loads of lycra/elastane and, when I get a really good fitting pair, am concious of their tight clinginess all day. It feels delightful!
Having discovered the delights of wearing stockings I am deeply envious of the social code that allows women to wear these things (stockings, bra, panties etc etc), but frowns on men doing the same.
Anal-ysis wrote:
Having discovered the delights of wearing stockings I am deeply envious of the social code that allows women to wear these things (stockings, bra, panties etc etc), but frowns on men doing the same.
It is just a social code. Nothing about these items in themselves suggests they should be worn by one gender only, as the history of fashion shows. And there is a sensual element to wearing some things which I don't think is confined to one gender.
Wear what you like, regardless of gender. No harm done. Discrimination and bullying is more dangerous and anyone who experiences that has my sympathy.
I love to wear a bra in the evening and at night I don't even know how many I have the most of them are 32 A boost your assets from a massive clothing store I also have un padded ones that are barley noticeable under clothes but I really like the couple of longline bras I have there is just something really sensual about wearing tight intimate lingerie
Sarah's wench I also have the costume you are wearing in your profile pic and it feels great
@ LTC, Yes I love my Alice costume, originally purchased my first one In 2013, wore it a few times a month for fun in the bedroom with my wife, always her suggestion to put it on, after about 3 yearsi was looking a bit washed out so have since purchased 2 more over the years to replace them. I also regularly sleep in mine about twice a month, really cosy especially with the white stockings. Most other costumes are made of very thin material that does not last long but the Alice costume is of very good quality and made to last for quite a few wears, just wish they made this exact costume in black and white also so could wear one as a maid outfit.
Anyway big you can fit a 32A bra you must be quite slim, I am around 75kg and wear size 10 to 12 women's clothes, I Found 34a to be the best fit...