Hey all you beautiful ladies, mens opinions welcome too, I may have not mentioned it much on here 
but you might have guessed I love my lingerie and wearing it, my biggest sadness is at the moment I know itās not something I can share with my Wife. 
My greatest happiness is Iāve found a great place and great people to share my lingerie with. 
My question is ladies, if they donāt already how would you honestly react if you found out your OH wore or wanted to wear lingerie?
Is it something you would try to introduce to them or encourage them to try?
Even though I donāt believe lingerie is just for women maybe it is it simply not for you on your OH like my Wife? Which I can totally understand too.
Gents if you wear lingerie does your OH know and are they happy to share it with you?
Thanks all. XxX
Male perspective hereā¦ Have just recently started wearing womenās underwear, mostly thongs as I find there alot more comfortable then I thought they would be and can totally understand how women can want to wear themā¦
I was open with my OH when I suggested that I buy some for myself and she thinks itās quite the turn onā¦ She is more mad that we arenāt the same size so we canāt share 
Iād be very happy if my OH wanted to buy lingerie! (Not just because I could borrow it although that would be a perk!). I know itās not his thing though so I wonāt push it. Iām happy with him wearing whatever he is comfortable in.
@Kitty-Cat01 What a lucky man, although my Wife would be gutted if she got in my lingerie as Iām big and sheās so petite!! 
Itās always a tough one.
As you know, I was lucky enough to find a girlfriend (then fiancĆ©) who without knowing of my love of lingerie encouraged me to wear it. It started with a pair of her cotton briefs when Iād run out of my own (she did the laundry), testing the water?
She spent 4 of the 5 years we were together buying my underwear, even selecting the ones she wanted me to wear for the day. I never told her that Iād spent my entire life wearing knickers, which kind of made it more special.
Iāve had other girlfriends ask me to dress up, in lingerie not to the same extent, but itās something they were keen on. Itās strange, but Iāve never been the one to initiate it. There was one girlfriend, who wouldnāt wear lacy lingerie herself, so knew that was going to be a dry spell, and another who just started hinting at it, then shortly afterwards we broke up.
Anyway, it seems to me, that for as many men who like to wear lingerie, there are an equal number of women who want to see them wearing it. When I check reviews on websites where I leave reviews, thereās a high number of men who purchase and wear lingerie who make that known in the reviews, then others like me who are more covert.
From experience with women who have initiated it, it usually happens quite quickly in the relationship, so if yours hasnāt brought it up, she may not have ever thought about it. It doesnāt mean sheās not into it; it may be that she just doesnāt know how to approach it with you either. They call that a conundrum.
One way to test the water is during foreplay, slip hers off, and start to put them on, if she freaks out, sheās either really not into it, or just worried you may stretch them. Then thereās always the other way, suggest she wears yours and again, see what the reaction is.
Good luck.
I think Iād be excited, itās always very sexy to see a partner enjoying themselves, plus thereās then so many gift options if lingerie is their thing!!
I would be fine with it, but would be sad that he hadnāt told me sooner. Full disclosure - I have a pair of pink lace panties (knickers?) in my drawer to give him when the time is right! 
I would suggest you reflect on why you believe you canāt tell her. Are you making assumptions or have you tried and she shut you down? Either way, even if my hubby thought I didnāt want to know or talk about it, I would hope he would push it with me. Even if itās something I didnāt like, I love my husband and we would find a way to work it out (even if it was a ādo what you want, but donāt include me in itā compromise).
@Ksag8602 Yes Iāve tried telling her, Iāve shown her the mens section on LH with a āoh look mens lingerie nowā but one thing I have learned about women, they can say a million words with one look!! XxX
Your one lucky guy @Jade48 glad you can enjoy sharing your passion with one amazing girl. XxX
@Yes_man - Thereās a lot written about it and multiple articles on the net. The big thing is the misconceptions on both parts. Research some articles, so if she hits you with something, you have the answer ready.
Cheers @Jade48 Thanks for all the advice, itās been great and liberating to share with my fellow LH kinksters but would be great to share with my wife!! 
XxX
@Yes_man - if you google āguide for Men wearing womenās Pantiesā, youāll find a few useful sites, which I donāt want to name on LH.
Cheers @Jade48 I also use a couple of lingerie for men websites for my panties, the 2 pairs in my first post today was from one. I like to a mixture of both as when Iād go out for coffee and cake with my FBF before the lockdown it was my opportunity to wear my underwear and some of the for men lingerie is very comfortable. XxX
As you may know, @Yes_man I donāt buy or wear menā's lingerie, everything Iāve got comes from some very large womenās lingerie companies with a huge selection.
When I get into something, I actually enjoy researching it, not for validation, just out of pure curiosity. One of the sites states they donāt make panties for men, because about 3-5% of purely heterosexual men regularly wear womenās lingerie for pleasure, where 100% of women wear them. Which makes sense.
@Jade48 Yes mate I appreciate that, I see all yours is womens lingerie, although donāt like calling it that , I wear womens lingerie for both mostly pleasure and also for normal wear. For me I just find the lingerie for men items nice to wear for casual wear when out with my FBF, never wear it for pleasure. As you can see the majority of my lingerie is from the lingerie sections on LH and similar sites. Believe me that gets worn hell of a lot more when I can. XxX
@Yes_man - my best suggestion, is to find a way to approach it with the OH, women have a way of finding things out, and itās better to come from you than for her to draw her own conclusions from discovering your passion.
Most women hate men keeping secrets with a passion.
I would feel many people would have an issue, your not wearing other womenās used underwear. It would be generally in the privacy of your house or under your clothes, so it wouldnāt really cause any issues. Iād say you guys have probably gotten past bigger things then this and you should bf able to talk it out. Maybe when she is watching you get dressed just throw a pair on and have a conversation. Prob better then ripping off the stripper pants half way through a session to surprise her lol
@Yes_man So sorry to hear that. There are some things I really hope my hubby doesnāt want to try, but if he tells me he does, I am willing to give it a go and then we can discuss it. I try not to say ānoā if I havenāt expereinced it yet. I hope that eventually she will be willing to at least talk about it with you.
Thanks @Ksag8602 I hope we can share it one day too.