Any tips on first time anal???

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Hi there

I have been with my boyfriend for about 36 months now. Our sex life is good when we are together (he is often away on buisness) We do lots of different positions, and he enjoys using my vibrators on me.

However, he often talks about anal. I pretend to be confident and up for it, but really im MEGA nervous about it. I've heard stories of it being painful....and potentially dangerous. But he seems really up for it.

I would love to try it, can anyone give me any pointers?? Or any toys I should buy to help me get started??

I have a rabbit vibrator, and a couple of classic vibes....are these any good for starters??

CHEERS

Jen

x

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Hi Jen, welcome to the OA someone with more tech nohow will be along with links I'm sure but there are lots of threads on this with hints and tips.

Important things to remember are take it slow, relax, start small and lots and lots of lube.

xGGx

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Loads of info on here to help you

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/362-anal-sex-for-beginners-any-advice/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/125287-help-me-like-anal/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/335837-anal-tips-touchy-subject-or-helpful-hints/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/316357-help-with-anal/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/228731-please-help/

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Get loads of lube and start with fingers...

then buy these if you are ready for the next step

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

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Yep, all this ^^^

Start small and work up at your own pace. It'll take a bit of patience, but its much better than it hurting and putting you off. And lube lube lube lube!

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relax... relax... communicate... lube (lots of it)... relax...

can only echo what the others said... start with a finger and work your way up, you'll know when you're ready for more :D

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sexyjengirl wrote:

I would love to try it, can anyone give me any pointers?? Or any toys I should buy to help me get started??

I have a rabbit vibrator, and a couple of classic vibes....are these any good for starters??

On top of what everyone else has suggested/linked... if anything's going 'up there', best make sure it has some kind of flared base. Wouldn't want anthing to get lost, hahah. External Media

xx

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Hi Jen

All the best advice has been given, relax, lots of lube and start with finger and take it from there...make sure you are honest about it from the begining, explain you are a little nervous and then keep that honesty if you do go for it..

x