My boyfriend has been wanting to try anal for a little while now and we've tried a few times but ive either found it too painful or chickened out! Has anyone got any useful tips to help with the first time? Would be much appreciated!
hi and welcome to the forum! they have been loads of threads on this topic have you tried the forum search? me and my hubby havent tried it yet but its on our list. the most comon thing ive heard people say is use lube and lots of it!
Only do this if you're 100% sure you want to.
Ok so taking that you are, The following are paramount to an enjoyable first anal experience......
Lots of lube, And I mean LOTS!!!
Relax and take your time, All the time, adding more LUBE!
Start off small and don't try to go at it like a jackhammer first time!
Take a moment to add more lube!
Communicate with eachother during the whole experience and if it hurts, STOP.
If teh pain subsides and you're relaxed enough, Carry on again.
All in all, Relax, LUBE, take your time and ENJOY! ;)
p.s. My repeating the lube thing isn't a piss take, I'm being very serious. I usually go through a whole tube of lube or at least half a tube during a good anal session ;)
Hi and welcome to the forums
anal is something that was new to me but rules are fairly simple relax go very slowly start small and lots and lots of lube.
If it hurts or is uncomfortable you need to stop and relax before trying to withdraw.
there is lots of advice on here try these:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/362-anal-sex-for-beginners-any-advice/
xGGx
This may be indirectly related but could still help...
Thank you for the advice, ghostgirl i had a look at the other forums and they were really useful too so thanks :) il let you know how we get on when i see him next week!