Apologies.... sorry

gunther wrote:

Who decided this was a place for "raunchy sex talk", sex is a normal and healthy activity which is discussed here usually in a rational and occasionally humourous manner. Perhaps you may try reading back through all your posts, you have only made 334, and count how many are apologies for previous provocative posts. You seem to delight in sailing close to the wind with forum rules and "digging people in the ribs". To be honest I think you have completely miss understood what the forum and its members are about. Bestiality underage sex and incest are illegal, you have touched on all three in the last 24 hrs.

What he said ^

With an added side portion of making lots of innapropriate comments of which I politely pointed out that you shouldnt do when you first joined. Now you continue to make the comments whlst pointing out "its just a joke, in case any of you forum mods are reading"

I commented in depth on a post recently about giving blowjobs and you came along and told the whole group that you basically got horny reading my comment. Erghh! sorry but you are the kind of person that scares away any person who is less confident and more afraid than the likes of me. It isnt the first time either. If you are such an open minded clever shit, why can you not see the difference between friendly and helpful and just downright grimy?

"A place to moan and groan" does NOT mean sexually moan and groan. I personally read this as "A place to go and have a moan and a groan about things" Somewhere to chat, get things off your chest etc. Not come and talk smut and hit on other members. You keep whinging about this like it should change. No! if you want to wank or start fights, find another medium.

I get tired of reading apologies from someone who clearly isnt sorry because they go act exactly the same way again time and time again. You can understand if someone genuinely didnt know and stood corrected but you keep on going, even after multiple members have said "Thats against the rules" and even after multiple thread deletions. Instead of accepting the rules you then try to start some kind of 'uprising' by posting a thread pertaining to the deleted thread searching for support and basically accusing people of being closed minded compared to your 'free thinking openess' if they do not see how your post was eye opening. It goes in circles.

I would put it out that most of us on the forum are open minded or we wouldnt have ended up here in the first place. However there is a difference between open mindedness and just general weirdness and sorry but you are hovering on that line like a tightrope walker. Open mindedness, for example could be discussing if the g-spot exists and what other peoples experiences are. Weirdness is then offering to help them find their g-spot...Do you not understand this line? (and adding "joke" at the end doesnt make it any less creepy btw, just more-so)

"You dont go into the lions den without expecting to meet the lions" Maybe. but this isnt a lions den. It is actually supposed to be the opposite. A friendly place for beginners to come and ask for advice, just because people are open minded enough to want information on sex, this doesnt mean that those same people should therefore be able to accept any weird crap that gets thrown at them without complaining just because they were talking about sex and it certainly doesnt mean they want to be hit on by pervy guys/women on the internet or come across immoral or even illegal chit chat.

Sighhh.

You have been told by members, and clearly told by the mods because the threads get deleted and yet you always come back with "sorry I will stop" but you never do. Thats ok though, it will just mean you will eventually get banned for good and this crap will end. As you were told in the last thread you started after a deletion....If you wanna be an "open minded maverick breaking all da rules coz u iz so cool like that"....then do it elsewhere please! Its just irritating.

i like bacon... just wanted to throw that out there to calm the situation down a little.

Bacon is yuck! I am calm though Steve xx Just saying what I thought about the situation and I guess the mods will remove my comment for being harsh now I read it back but I just spoke what I thought. Fed up of the ruckus on the forums every few days and also the perviness every time someone posts looking for advice.

How can we give advice and talk openly to new people if we are feeling perved on.

"Mild turn on" erghh sorry but no.

Im shutting up now because I actually do not want to get banned from here but suffice to say I do NOT like!

I am calm though lol xx

Fluffbags wrote:

Bacon is yuck! I am calm though Steve xx Just saying what I thought about the situation and I guess the mods will remove my comment for being harsh now I read it back but I just spoke what I thought. Fed up of the ruckus on the forums every few days and also the perviness every time someone posts looking for advice.

How can we give advice and talk openly to new people if we are feeling perved on.

"Mild turn on" erghh sorry but no.

Im shutting up now because I actually do not want to get banned from here but suffice to say I do NOT like!

I am calm though lol xx

I completely agree with everything written on your above post! Well Said!

Well said Ork, Fluffbags, et al. Itotally agree.

Lifebuoy wrote:GUNTER

....my friend.... pop back to the thread 'Porn name alternative' and read my response to your accusation about 'incest'. You will see that this was all a big misunderstanding... on your part...... and what we need to do is have a cyber-handshake and a good belly laugh about it !!

I am not your friend, I did not miss understand your post, in fact you later described it as a dig in the ribs for your amusement. You seem to think I and others cannot pretend to your intellectual eminence. I find many of your posts sleazy and offensive to the female posters here, when you throw one in my direction you will get a response. I like many here have a normal healthy love life with my wife of 27 yrs, others are more adventurous ....whatever floats your boat. Some posters here have little or no experience and I imagine are quite nervous, they can do without you and a few others making it clear you find the discussion arousing.

P.S. you will find George Bernard Shaw quoted in the above post.

Lifebuoy wrote:

Listen.... I am now feeling pretty 'ganged-up on'. Maybe I have brought this, in part, upon myself (the 'raunchy' 'moan and groan' thing notwithstanding). Some of my threads have arguably been 'sailing close to the wind' as Gunter points out. This isn't an attempt to undermine the Forum (I love it here). It's an attempt to 'get things going'..... sensational chat..... hot debate....big laughs. And, no doubt, I've allowed myself to get a bit carried away in this vein.

Plainly 'getting things going' isn't something that everyone wants.... and LH, for business reasons, really wants this place to be non-controversial.... and invariably 'nice'

Trying to change an established forum to suit yourself isn't on. That's what everyone's been trying to communicate to you. Do you really not get it? Or is this more of that faux innocent thing you do?

Whether it's trolling (I agree with Ork here) or genuine, the whole thing got old a while ago. Though at this point I think the most sensible thing to do is ignore you altogether. If you are trolling, this level of attention is just giving you what you're after.

If you want to be a part of this community, then be a part of this community as it is. We're not going to change something that works just because you want us to.

OOP ! HE'S GONE

i wonder if when he comes back he'l start a new thread apoligising about his apoligy?

I can't help thinking that it would have been wiser for LB to have never made this thread to start with...

I genuinely don't know what to make of him. Sometimes he comes across as a normal guy and other times he just wound me up by seeming to provoke people deliberately. The internet seems to encourage it somehow, presumably becase people are braver behind a screen. Personally I don't see the need or the attraction of winding someone up for the hell of it.

I remember the other week he responded to a post I'd made when I'd been feeling utterly wretched with essay stress and other matters. His post annoyed me so much I couldn't trust myself to post in that thread for days afterwards for fear I'd snap at him, even though I wanted to respond to all the kind comments made by other members of the forum, which I genuinely appreciated. And then I never did go back to that thread...

Hey guys and gals,

I'm going to close this thread now. As Cat Lady says, it really should never have been here in the first place and what's done is done so let's not dwell.

I'm sorry to those of you who feel you've had any sort of negative experience while using our forums. As most of you know, we work very hard to keep this a friendly and honest place, where we can chat openly with eachother without being judged, or misunderstood.

Thank you to all of you who abide by the rules and continue to add to the lovely atmosphere here by helping to keep situations like this down to a bare minimum. You don't go unnoticed!

Contrary to a certain persons belief, the report button IS there for a reason, and although it barely needs to be used (as you're all so lovely!) we encourage you to report any behaviour here which you deem to be inappropriate, offensive or just down right rude.

Thanks again to everyone for your continued support and loyalty.

Now, lets get this weekend started!! Have a great one everybody!