MrandMrs_L wrote:
Never really thought about this one too much. We never really bother to clean up before anal, as KinkyMira said - we don't really plan on it either it just happens in the moment. I've def left a mess on my husband, but $h!t happens (pun intended) lol
Each to their own though!
KinkyMira wrote:
It does float our boat, and is definitely still very taboo.
We never clean up or out before we do anal, as doing so would take too long and probably kill the desire. We never plan anal, it just happens, and if I'm honest, there isn't usually much mess, although a few large towels on the bed never hurts.
One of these days, I'll write a blog post about this stuff (if I ever get the time).
I'm the same with this, although hubby does think it's a little messy and obviously always wears a condom.
He will do it to make me happy and I have suggested to him if I douched myself first, would he give me anal more often?
I have never used a douche, but would love to try one, just to respect my hubby and for his peace of mind.
Also, to test one for myself and have that 'clean, empty' feeling inside my anus (never had the pleasure of experiencing this before!).
He first instigated anal when we got together as he'd never tried it with any previous partners and was curious.
When he asked me if I'd like to try it, I did straight away as I was as curious as him. Ever since then, I've loved it and it's something I really enjoy and get a lot of pleasure from.
Hubby does get the urge to give me anal, but always ensures he's squeaky clean after! x
It's nice that others (quoted above) feel the same and we can all talk about it.
I was afraid to bring this topic up myself as I wasn't sure how the majority of readers would react (possibly thinking it's a bit gross!)
Well done to these guys who have talked about it, I feel so relieved now. I wouldn't judge anyone on here, so I should assume the same of everyone else.
I respect each and every person's views about clean (or dirty!, lol) anal sex on here.
Different strokes for different folks. xx
Thanks everyone. 😊