Im assuming some/most of you will have tried both, so I ask what's the difference?
What feels better for you and why?
And what would be good to try as a couple?
Fanks
Beads not beafs.. ..
Haha I was thinking what on earth is a beaf in terms of toys ! I thought I might have missed a trick hehe.
I prefer beads as they feel amazing on the way in and out. Each bead pops and gives a great sensation. Awsome for forplay. Although I would say a plug if it's to be worn during sexy.
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I prefer plugs they have a better build up and when you reach the max point the rush of pleasure is out of this world.
Both very different,from a female perspective plugs make you feel fuller when having something else vaginally whereas beads feel amazing pulled out at the point of orgasm, personally though I prefer a dildo when I feel like bum play.
I prefer a butt plug! I like beads, but you you do get the feeling of fullness from the plug which I enjoy more.
Both are different, beads feel great during insertion and removal but I think plugs can be better for providing constant stimulation (if vibrating) or just a sense of fullness. I prefer plugs but I will use both depending on my mood :)
Beads is where it started for me - pulling them out at point orgasm is amazing!
Next up was plugs which I liked for the different sensation of both having your butt held open a little and the feel of ok If inside.
These days I mostly use dildos or prostate massagers anally but plugs and beads still have a place - it's not a mutually exclusive decision thankfully
That’s similar to dildo vs vibrator, as they serve a similar purpose but it’s two very different experiences. Plugs are excellent for feeling full and also for double penetration sessions (solo and with a partner) they also feel amazing when you peak the big O as everything just feels more intense. Beads are really fun and for a beginner they are excellent, the little “pop” you get from every bead is enough to make you bite your lip and pulling them out at the moment you hit orgasm is really intense and gives a pulsating dragging feeling. So I like both, if I had to choose one for solo play I would go for a plug, for couple play I would go for beads as they are fun to play with. A side note, seeing someone wearing a plug is super Hott, and the fact you can wear them secretly while your out and about is fun and exciting too which you can’t get from beads.
Thanks folks.
Do you have any reccomendations for beads? (not beafs)
I/we currently only have https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772
But we are keen to trying stuff.
Both pretty much beginners but the GF can't get me and that in at the same time, I fancy trying the beads with her aswell sometime
Hey Ian, First I would make sure you get a decent lubricant which is thick and long lasting, see below:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/
We use the Lovehoney discovery one and it’s amazing for anal, second I would recommend a douche as this can make anal play a lot more comfortable and less messy:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952
Douches may seem a tad medical and odd if you have never tried it before but I can assure you it’s a much better experience overall once you have used one. And then onto the beads, if your still in the beginning stages I would go for something small like the following:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2219
But I would recommend the probe below:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23981
And the glass beaded probe here:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187
Glass is super smooth and far easier to get inside if your a beginner, due to not being as grippy as silicone etc it slips in and out with a little lube and will feel just as intense.
In regards to plugs I would really recommend the butt tingler:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501
And if your struggling with size for DP I would go for the slimline plug here:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053
Hopefully this helps and I’m sure others can help too!
Or dildosAmyA wrote:
Both very different,from a female perspective plugs make you feel fuller when having something else vaginally whereas beads feel amazing pulled out at the point of orgasm, personally though I prefer a dildo when I feel like bum play.
Thanks lil_known We have good lube, we got it in New York and will be sad when it's done and I have a douche. I'll show her the rest and see what she says. She said she wanted a plug with a remote so she can use it rather than sit with a wire aswell lol. I have a desire one in my list to show her.LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:
Hey Ian, First I would make sure you get a decent lubricant which is thick and long lasting, see below:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/We use the Lovehoney discovery one and it’s amazing for anal, second I would recommend a douche as this can make anal play a lot more comfortable and less messy:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952Douches may seem a tad medical and odd if you have never tried it before but I can assure you it’s a much better experience overall once you have used one. And then onto the beads, if your still in the beginning stages I would go for something small like the following:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2219But I would recommend the probe below:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23981And the glass beaded probe here:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187Glass is super smooth and far easier to get inside if your a beginner, due to not being as grippy as silicone etc it slips in and out with a little lube and will feel just as intense.
In regards to plugs I would really recommend the butt tingler:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501And if your struggling with size for DP I would go for the slimline plug here:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053Hopefully this helps and I’m sure others can help too!
The desire remote plug is a great choice, it’s a little bit bigger than a slimline one so prepare yourself! But it should tackle the wire situation. If you have a lube from somewhere else and you want to see it on Lovehoney use the “pander to me thread” 🙌🏻
Bigiain wrote:
Or dildosAmyA wrote:
Both very different,from a female perspective plugs make you feel fuller when having something else vaginally whereas beads feel amazing pulled out at the point of orgasm, personally though I prefer a dildo when I feel like bum play.
My first and favourite beads were actually these
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24318
I don't have the normal Desire plug but I do have the rimming version
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37759 Which is amazing but probably a bit big for DP.
Dildos I have been building up the girth slowly, I started with probes, then
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31448 and https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32884 and now https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38799, hoping to move on to this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38285 but it's a fair jump in size.
I like to use a love egg when I use a dildo anally (cos I'm greedy!) and it's fast becoming a favourite way to play and something I find myself craving.