hi my oh and both wish to induluge in anal play for him and myself and were looking for advice and recommendations on how to start off and work our way up any ideas or suggestions thanks
Hi there, If you do a quick search in the forum for anal, you will get a few good threads about it.
Have a wee read through this one for some advice
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/362-anal-sex-for-beginners-any-advice/
I have these on my to buy list (wishlist)
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24420
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479
We bought the bionic bullet
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20752
And, well, it just wont go
douche, lube (tons) fingers, small toys... maybe beads (but i'm not a fan) Steve is right though... check the forums... plenty of advice on here :)
Yeah, plenty of lube, I personally recommend Maximus, love it. Also, take it very slow, and make sure you're in a position where you're relaxed.
You can have all the lube and patience in the world, but if you're not relaxed, forget it. x
thanks for the advice. i have another question if anyone could give a answer what would be the best lube to use as we tried one that was oil based and a tiny bit of baby oil and i had a bad reaction to it any ideas thanks again
water based lube, pop anal lube in a search... ulfind 1 ;p. take it slow....
Im new to anal, and honestly it does not matter what toys you buy to start off with as you need to be relaxed. otherwise you'll tense up and it work.
try getting the anal douche as it cleans you out and helps you feel clean and comfortable.
small anal beads are a good start. followed by a small butt blug. honestly use lots of lube and it will work out fine.
definitely use lots of lube you shouldnt underestimate the amount to use and try a beginners butt plug they are good my partner seemed to like that when we tried it first