Hey all
I was lucky enough to swipe the swoon get a grip balls(http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25361) on a recent d.o.t.d and I was wondering what the next stage would be. These stay in very easily but I can't really feel any movement so was wondering if I needed smaller ones or something? As there are a few sets in the b/h sale I was looking for some recommendations to go to next? :-)
Hey Lillithlibby, found a LH link below that may be useful for you :) xx
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/better-sex-for-her/buyers-guide/how-to-use-ben-wa-balls/
Thanks scorpius :-):-)
Hey lillithlibby
I would recommend you move onto set which are heavier and smaller than the ones you currently own. The Swoon set weigh 67g.
You might like to consider the JoyBalls Secret Duo Balls which weigh 89g.
Alternatively you could go for a set which will enable you to work up your strength even more. The Blush Luxe Femina Glass Exerciser is brilliant as you can remove the balls and build up to using both weights together. You can even use the balls on their own, without the silicone harness for a tougher workout. The balls have a combined weight of 125g.
When you're ready you can then move onto something like the Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess balls which weigh a total of 221g.
Smaller and heavier, though to get both in the same set will cost a bit. I started with the Tracey Cox ones, which are 1/2 inch smaller in circumference and 9 grams heavier than the Swoon. (If the 4.75 circumference Swoons are 'medium', what is large?) They'd be a step in the right direction, but probably not enough to make much difference.
Recently got 2.25 inch ones to see how that went before investing in better ones. Their combined weight is comparable to the Swoon. I definitely feel more with them, so they're an improvement for me. Haven't had sex since I got them, so not sure on that count.
Original Ben Wa Balls, £5 on clearance http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9204 They're probably listed as part of the BH sale, but have been on clearance at this price for awhile. The £3 plastic ones might be small enough to jiggle for you, but they're lightweights. Maybe worth a try, but I personally wouldn't bother.
I'll be getting a new set for review any day now. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28399 They're almost twice the weight and on the smaller side of what's available at that weight, so I'm hoping they'll meet my needs. I'll post to this thread once they're here. (Same ones that Jess just mentioned.)
The Ami 3 Step is supposed to be great. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20747
Well that was quick. The Blush Luxe just arrived. :-) It's two balls and a silicone harness, which makes more sense in person than in the picture. Circumference for the ball is 4.5". The silicone is that lovely soft smooth kind. Have the first one in on its own and I can definitely feel it, more so than the 2.25" ben was.