i know you said no lingerie, what about a dress. Something short lace or fishnet, no panties or bra. Buy him a cockring, give him the blowjob of his life. Make it all about him. You don’t have to spend much to have a lot of fun.
Another vote for a cock ring, personally we like to use vibrating one’s.
There’s plenty of couples toys to choose from.
We also like to use foreplay dice, there’s also bondage you could do.
A nice cheap idea is the 100 scratch off dates poster.
Ours is a bit battered as we put it in the wardrobe door and it gets ruffled most mornings, but been together 15 years and it’s still helps us.
I have loads of lingerie I havent worn yet, so I will wear something from my collection. We have quite a collection of cock rings, we have the foreplay dice, a new selection of madsage oil/lubes and plenty of restraints etc.
I went with the Tenga @Green_Eyed_Girl recommended, a tingling lube, the textured nubby glass (he is obsessed with hitting my g-spot and I’m not complaining!), Ben Goldacre’s Bad Science and a bottle of red.
I’m not a massive fan of lingerie. I always feel a bit stupid, like I’m trying too hard. Although I will probably wear something for him but also want to give him a pressie as well. So, all sorted now thanks to you lot