Mr HP still hasn't tied me up so I"m taking the matter into my own hands this weekend and I'm gonna try to show him what it's all about. This is my first proper go at bondage so any tips very very welcome. I have various whips, paddles and the outfit sorted and have ordered a blindfold (40p guys -get yours ordered). But Mr HP loves to see me dolled up especially the 'fuck me' heels so at what point should I blindfold him and do I take it off at any point? Perhaps let me see me in the gear, and then tie him up (a chair I thought - got a good shagging one) and then blindfold??
If you've got any tips about what would get blokes going please help - I really want to wind him up til he explodes. (Then fingers crossed he'll reciprocate).
Hmm, with all that, it certainly sounds like you'll have a lot to do - have fun!
Perhaps you should surprise him; while he's busy, you could get all dressed up ('fuck me' heels are always a good thing!), and make sure all the 'props' are out to be seen in the bedroom (then, when you've got him in there, he'll have seen all the exciting stuff but won't know what's going to hit him first, pardon the pun). Hopefully without him expecting anything, you could go and surprise him in your sexy wear (perhaps not speaking at all - let him just appreciate!) and forcefully drag him off to the bedroom. Let him have a little look around (of course, not touching anything) and tie him to the chair - this could be a good blindfoldy time. Then, ta da, you can do what you want!
why dont you just tell him that you have been fanatsizing about blindfolding him and the mere thought has had you on the edge of an orgasm ... so if he lets you do it maybe you will give into one of his fanatsies about you??
us blokes cant help but go for the tit for tat thing lol
Is there a way you could blindfold him before you let him see you in your outfit? Then he'd be imagining what you're wearing from what he can feel, which I think could work quite well!
Also, it might help to have background noise, then you don't have to worry about him listening for clues about what's to happen. Music would be more than adequate, although porn would set his pulse racing. Hearing all those moans, the anticipation of what you are going to do with him, wondering what was happening in the video etc.
Most important, don't be self conscious. Just enjoy it. Good luck
Is there a way you could blindfold him before you let him see you in your outfit? Then he'd be imagining what you're wearing from what he can feel, which I think could work quite well!
I agree, let him feel what you are wearing before he sees you, heightened senses of touch and smell will set is heart pounding x
Yes I was thinking music would be good. Well you've given me lots to think on and I don't think just one occasion will suffice! Self-conscious - ha! No worries there! A few years ago I would have been but for some (wonderful) reason I've morphed into a nymph! OH can't quite believe his luck but I think I'm just making up for all time in the past when I wasn't interested. (Mind you I think sometimes he'd be quite glad if I gave him a rest)
We'll be just fine in a few days. But I don't want to put myself in a position where he could blow me off - even though I'd be dominating him I think I'll feel vulnerable revealing a fantasy. MInd you could be a way of getting my own back! Hmmm!