I’ve seen desensitising sprays to help with blowjobs as my mrs really struggles with her gag reflex at times, I just want to know if they really work?, how long does it take to work?, how long does it work for? and how’s the taste?
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Hmm not sure how great a feel it would be to numb the throat like that 
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I had a ONS once and she decided to try it after promising to be the first person to fully deepthroat me (spoiler alert: she failed).
It was only a one off, and I hadn’t experienced a blowjob from her without it, so there was no ‘control’ as such, for comparison… but she didn’t get it very deep, so I’m sceptical.
I’ll be honest and I didn’t ask her if she felt any difference.
I know it sounds obvious but it’s all down to practice and learning control, numbing spray takes the fun away from the feeling of deep throat, my OH practiced with dildos and holding them at the back of her throat until she got control of her gag reflex, it took her a few months but now she can give full balls deep deep throat and hold me comfortably in her mouths for ages,
Me personally I learnt to control mine by just giving more and more BJ’s and pushing the limit that bit more at a time until it was full deep throat. Although must admit for me and my OH the odd ejaculation in the back of the throat can still take your gag reflex by surprise!!
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Practice has helped us over come the gag reflex. Wife is able to take me all the way, last week she was able to also take my cock and balls. Average size here. On the flip side I am able to take wife’s 7 and 8 inch strap on dildos all the way. Took practice but now I very seldom gag and wife pretty much never.
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It took me over a year to overcome my gag reflex try as I might and believe me I tried a lot, I just couldn’t get it down. My husband is a little over average size ( plus 7”) and that probably didn’t help or it became a mental block. The breakthrough came with the help of alcohol, quite a lot of alcohol. 
. I think it helped me relax and once I’d overcome this it was easy to repeat it. I have to admit I love being able to imitate a porn star and it’s something that we both enjoy.
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I agree with practice. My wife used to have a terrible gag reflex but over time she has managed to get rid of it completely and now loves deepthroat.
We have used some of that spray but just found it didn’t work.
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I would agree with what a couple of others have said, and practice.
It takes time and patient but it is possible to train (so to speak) the gag reflex. There are a range of ways/techniques that can be utilised to work on this so practice can be continued without an actual cock. Although, of course, slowly working on it with a real cock is the best fun.
I used to struggle with my exes slightly below average sized cock, and could never take him anywhere near fully without almost throwing up. My gag reflex was bad! I am now able to comfortably take a much larger cock, that is definitely above average.
To try and numb the throat, for me would take some of the pleasure away from having their cock in my throat, especially as it took some effort to achieve being able to do so. As well as being turned on by their reaction and pleasure, I get a thrill out of feeling it slide into that tight nook. If my throat was numb, I wouldn’t get that extra thrill.
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Some techniques I used:
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Slowly worked on keeping his cock in place, at the point of wanting to gag, holding it for a few seconds. Continuing with the blowjob and then holding again. Overtime I was able to start taking it deeper.
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Use of dildos can help. Taking an actual cock (for me) is easier than a dildo however practicing on a dildo similar to the holding technique above, helped and gave me confidence when sucking his cock.
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Include some practice when brushing teeth. Maybe a little unusual, but it can help. I use a separate soft brush to clean my tongue. When brushing my tongue, I would to stop and lightly press the brush down and gently move it back and forth slightly on my tongue. Overtime, I gradually worked on being able to do this further back without gagging. Aiding my gag reflex and giving my tongue a better clean.
With daily brushing, this also helps keep up the good work on the gag reflex in-between regular practice on his cock. 
This took a number of blowjobs and slowly progressing to get to where I am, so be patient. Any effort they are willing to put in, appreciate and enjoy it. The more encouragment I got as I progressed, certainly helped spur me on to greater things.
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