have recently started experimenting with bondage nothing to heavy and would love to get a gag for my partner and I as have been using clothing so far but would love any input as we are both very new to this
I'm not a huge fan of gagging, though I agree that it looks particularly erotic!
I have tried a few gags anyway, and think this would be a fantastic one for beginners;
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15706
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thanks violeteyes looked at the pic and looks very erotic a great help
thanks violeteyes looked at the pic and looks very erotic a great help
Bondage plays a big part in our sex life. Enjoy gagging K, we have four ball gags and a penis gag. One thing i would add is that you should never leave someone alone whilst gagged.
I wasn't too sure about gagging but bought a small ball gag which is a great start. Its actually quite kinky when its on!
this is mine http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15275
it has holes so I can breathe!
Gags can be great fun, and they have the added advantage of muffling the screams... (of pleasure, naturally). We found that ball gags tend to make you drool more, which is fine if you're into that look; they also make the jaw ache more than some other ones.
Penis gags are our favourite - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13529 - there's nothing like having a close-up view of your partner easing herself onto a dildo literally right in front of your nose!
For a real sensation of fullness without strain, try an inflatable butterfly gag, like this:
http://www.fetters.co.uk/store/fetters/gags/inflatable-butterfly-gag.html
The 'wings' go between your teeth and cheeks, so you blow up like a hamster, whilst the main bit inflates in your mouth. It's not as uncomfortable as it sounds, honestly! That's probably my favourite gag.
I forgot to add some advice - if you're doing gag play in BDSM, you need to establish a 'safe signal' as obviously the sub can't utter a safe word to tell you to stop when things get too intense. Get them to hold something that makes a noise, like a clicker, bell or squeaker; or work out a coded sequence of grunts.
Love idea of being gagged - so erotic to be unable to say no.
Just be careful, and make sure the ungagged person is aware of the gagged person at all times. And stick to well designed gags made by reliable companies rather than improvising something in the heat of the moment like tape or stuffing panties in the mouth that can dangerously cut off breathing.