My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months now, and I'm starting to realize our sex life - though great - is going a little too fast and I'm kinda worried... Our relationship spurred from a 1 night stand so we've been having lots of sex since the beginning. Ever since I told him I am a masochist and I get turned on when I'm hurt he started grabbing me really hard and hitting me. We both get carried away but when we finish I'm covered in bruises on my arms butt but boobs more than anything else. Also yesterday he was rubbing my panties against my labia really hard and the textile hurt me a lot and I even bled a little due to the wounds. He then stuffed my panties inside of my vagina and anus and thrusted me really hard while they were inside. He removed them and we had anal. I lost my anal verginity, but the condom broke so switched to regular vaginal intercourse. I mean we were both confused by the experience but he really does seem to lose control sometimes and I don't know how to help him? I love him and he genuinely seemed sorry afterwards and said we need to take a break because we do act as if we were addicted.
My questions are... 1) does this sound like normal sex that a couple in love would have; 2) has anybody else ever experienced something like this; 3) how to cure sores around the vagina due to intense rubbing? Can I put aloes on it? And how long until they're gone?
Also, do you think it would benefit our relationship if we abstained from having sexual intercourse for a couple of weeks/15 days or longer? I'm really sore now and we both agreed we should take a break but when I sleep over or he does we just can't!