@Caliente +1
Caliente wrote:
I love my new little Rosebud. It feels nice and looks lovely. And yes - I have a pornstar butt now!
I'd always been very wary of any anal play, until I found a parter who didn't just want a fantasy fullfilled, but was actually committed to making me feel comfortable and excited by doing it. I'd say that's the main part of preparing for any anal toys/play - being relaxed, taking it slowly and doing what feels good. Other than that, just a little bit of lubricant and you're good to go.
No problems cleaning the Julian Snelling plug so far and I've been wearing it lots.
Maybe one day I'll achieve a "porn - Star" butt LOL
mrbigpackage wrote:
just buy it then insert it before you have sex with him and just let him find it 
LMAO!! Good idea! Maybe I'll be punished for wearing it without telling him  Hehehehe.
Sassygal wrote:
Hi there
I too found anal play very intimidating due to several "bad/painful" mishaps (!!)
But actually now I've completely overcome that & am loving anal play.
We got a small anal starter kit to start (thanks LH!) I was very reassured how slim the items were. We also bought a large bottle of lube!! (Rule of thumb- there is no such thing as too much!)
I have now got several pretty plugs & more anal toys and have definitely "worked up" to more medium sizes. Slowly... Very slowly!!
My tip would be to start experimenting yourself during your own quality time! So you can see what feels good & take control so you feel comfortable. Then show your partner when you feel confident, how & what works for you!
Take your time, relax & explore!!!
And yes - having penetration with a plug in, makes everything feel very intense & full. Very nice indeed!
Thank you for your post, I shall take your words of wisedom into consideration. Might just experiment alone and see how things are....and then maybe suprise my BF with that cute little rosebud.
The more I think about it, the more I want to at least try it!  As I love it when my BF is inside of me, so if it makes things feel more intense....I'm willing to have a go.
@chocolate-milk that's right, you go for it. Enjoy it yourself and then when you feel comfortable, involve the OH.
Anal play can be really really good as long as you are comfortable with the person you are doing it with and you really do want to give it a go not doing it just to please the other person.
I would start with something small (best is actually a finger) and work your way up. remember plenty of good lube no matter how small it seems and just enjoy it ;0)
mrbigpackage wrote:
just buy it then insert it before you have sex with him and just let him find it 
Haha Mrbig, that's what I did to my OH the otter day...he's not keen on getting I to anal play, but I'm curious so I have a prober, anal beads and a T-bar vibrating plug.
I put the vibrating one in, and climbed on top of him, so he couldn't see it, then I reached behind me and switched it on...the look on his face was classic!
sadly, the plug got pushed out though as things got more vigorous!
make sure you get the right size the base on mine was too small and i felt like my ass was gunna swallow it up lol i thought smaller plug = better and comfier not for a hypocondriact like me
Luv bunny wrote:
mrbigpackage wrote:
just buy it then insert it before you have sex with him and just let him find it 
Haha Mrbig, that's what I did to my OH the otter day...he's not keen on getting I to anal play, but I'm curious so I have a prober, anal beads and a T-bar vibrating plug.
I put the vibrating one in, and climbed on top of him, so he couldn't see it, then I reached behind me and switched it on...the look on his face was classic!
sadly, the plug got pushed out though as things got more vigorous!
WOW! Sounds like you had fun. Would love to suprise my BF with a cute little plug inside. (A vibrating one! Nice!) I've been dropping hints about how cute the gem ones look....but I'm not sure he's biting LOL.
Chocolate milk -do it and surprise him (and yourself) lol! I like the look of some jewelled plugs, so gonna add one to my wishlist for when I have more money to spend on toys :)
Hi!
Using a buttplug like the ones you describe would not require much preparation. If you're really scared, you could do a quick anal douche right before inserting a small plug (there are some really afforable ones here at LH).