My partner is very submissive and loves to be dominated and perform oral on me. She loves the feeling of me taking control and obeying my orders, particularly when it comes to pleasing me with oral (I know, I’m a lucky boy). Anyway we’ve talked about drawing up a list of challenges that she has to fulfill (eg, once a day for a week, outdoors, lasting for a certain amount of time) and we’d like your suggestions of challenges to add to the list…
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@guiltyparty hello 
When you say challenges, are you wanting sexual ideas or more task based ideas that she has to do through the day?
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Thanks for replying 
Yes, we were thinking oral sex related challenges that she has to complete. Any suggestions?
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OK, so off the top of my head, you could time her. If she makes you cum in X amount of time she’s rewarded with her favourite sexual act on her or something else
Or she has to give you oral for a certain amount of time without making you cum
Or she has to make you cum with her mouth and mouth alone without using her hands while you use her favourite toy on her. She MUST make you cum before she does.
She must give you head once a day for month without fail.
Once a week you’re allowed to video her doing it.
She could have punishments if she fails any of these.
It’s hard to suggest without knowing exactly what you guys are into. As a sub I love impact and wouldn’t class that as punishment but your other half may do.
You could make a sex game out of dice which focuses on oral. You roll it in the morning and that’s how many times she has to go down on you that day etc.
The only thing I would say is ensure that you are both on the same page and consent is key. Ensure you come back to your list regularly and update to ensure you’re both still happy with everything on there.
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A few things that come to mind:
You could challenge to find a new technique or position or something to change up the blow job.
You could challenge her to give you a blow job in every room of your home or a different room each time. You could also challenge her to find the best places to give a blow job that aren’t the usual bed/sofa/chair etc
You could play around with the cum, be it making her hold it in her mouth, you cumming somewhere other than her mouth and she has to lick it up/drink it, cumming not in her mouth directly but she has to make sure no drop goes anywhere but her mouth.
Ask her to film herself giving oral to a dildo.
Tell her to wake you up with a blow job every day/every day for a certain time period/once a week/whatever time period.
Require to use or not to use certain techniques.
Get her to find some good blow job porn to watch together and you can choose your favourite to re-enact. (Could also work for oral sex scenes in normal movies/tv shows etc)
Challenge her to include some good oral stimulation of an area that isn’t your penis.
Dictate a routine/scenario for her to act out, eg being in a certain place, at a certain time, in a certain outfit (or naked), she then has to undress you in a certain order or wait for you to do something etc ending in oral sex. But she has to get all the elements right.
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My wife recently came up with a new game to play.
She set a selection of dildos and butt plugs (various sizes) on a coffee table, and bound my hands behind my back. She then challenged me to squat and pick up each toy with only my a$$, and carry it over to her without dropping the toy, the bigger the toy the harder she f**k me before letting me move on to the next.
If I dropped the toy she would whip me and and gradually tighten my ball clamp.
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Thank you @Calie ! These are amazing. The filming, cum play and scenarios will definitely be going on the list 
Sounds like a golden partner you’ve got there - I’m sure all the guys envy how much your partner loves giving oral.
Not sure if it’s your thing but I always enjoy public oral, the thrill of possibly being caught is so fun.
Another thing that blew my mind was when a partner made me cum but managed to keep going slowly enough that I built up another load & went again. Back to back loads is insanely mind blowing 
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