Has anyone else who is involved with a Dom been put on a "cum ban"?
And if so how do you cope with the first couple of days! I'm struggling haha
I achieve self restraint through a combination of meditative activity and distraction.
Also making the punishment appropriate is a pretty good deterrent.
That may have to be suggested as their isn't a punishment...as far as I'm aware! ha
So far I've been coping because of my desire of wanting to please them :)
I've found setting submissive tasks to distract them can help, even if it's lines. Although of course, I don't want to make it too easy, so with some will throw in tasks to tempt them too.
What sort of tasks would these be?