Hi All
I wanted to take some time to talk about chastity and see if this is of any interest to anybody out there.
I am male and into chastity.
Why?
Because I have always liked bondage and love the idea of bondage play all of the time that nobody else knows about other then you.
Has it helped my marriage?
Big yes and Big No. My wife has a low sex drive and is only interested in (any form) of sexual affection or activity once a month for a 2 to 3 day window. This was a real issue for me until i changed my mind set to consider the monthly wait sexual play in its self (negative into a positive) however the major down side is my wife hates chastity devices and finds them a major turn off therefore i only use them when i am away from home on business (which is almost weekly)
What feels good about it?
When you are really horny and aching to cum and you are locked and unable to touch, feeling the pulsing in the cage and knowing only she can give me the release my body wants.
What device do you choose and why?
I have a CB2000, 3000 and 6000s. the 2K was my 1st device and was a mistake, the 3k worked well for years but the cage was to big for me and the 6000s is perfect fit. As advise for others a penis is either a "Shower" (this means it is the same size erect or flaccid) or a "Grower" shrinks when flaccid. I am a grower and shrink to nothing when soft so the small size of the 6000s works for me where as a shower might get on better with something like the cage.
Steel or Plastic?
For me plastic works as i am flying and walking through metal detectors so I can keep it on even through the body scanners (metal locks removed and plastic number locks used) I can’t comment on steel as never used it.
Does it hurt?
If it does then you’re doing it wrong.... if you get a ring size to small then you will find when you get erect you will get a burning sensation. change your ring / cage spacing set up. it will be uncomfortable to try and be erect for extended periods (but that’s the point) but it should not hurt. As a rule i would also recommend the cage spacing being as small as possible to offer the best fit and you should fill the cage when soft if you have the right fitting.
Is it safe? are there health issues?
Yes its safe as long as you have a good fit. but you have to be sensible. your balls are trapped and have less movement to energetic sports should not be done whilst wearing it and you’re not going to enjoy standing around in very low temperatures so try and keep your manhood warm where possible. Other than that you should be aware that the prostate needs to have a regular ejaculation to flush out toxins but if you consider there are religions suggesting long term chastity covering years at a time if you are cuming 12 times are year your fine....... As another side note please take a common sense approach to wearing a device. The penis is a muscle and like all mussels if it is not used it gets smaller. So if you don’t want it to lose its normal size then it needs to be taken out and played with from time to time. a strong hard erection for as long as you can muster will do you the power of good. (by the way that doesn’t mean you need to cum)
How long do you wait?
For me the longest I have gone is 50 days however once or twice a month being able to cum works for me and builds the desired state without causing any issues